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ShAi*

Current Mission: " doing what makes me happy, working on things i believe in, traveling when i get a chance"

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City Ambassador (Mumbai)
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India
Maharashtra
Mumbai
Lat: 18.975, Lon: 72.82584
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General Information

ShAi* is a CS City Ambassador for Mumbai, India!
CS Collective Participant in NZ 2006
ShAi* has been vouched for
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Couch availableCoffee or a drink
CouchSurf requests replied to96%
member sinceApril 23rd, 2005
profile views40903
age34
genderSeveral people
membernameShAi*
occupation seeing the world as a local,meet INCREDIBLE people & have AMAZING experiences
educationtravel, stories, personal experiences, mistakes, friends.....and then degrees in fashion & textiles
grew up inPittsburgh ->Bombay ->Austria->Ahmedabad->NYC--> Bombay/Pune...?
ethnicityspicy curry blend
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  • EnglishExpert
  • HindiExpert
  • GujaratiIntermediate
  • MarathiIntermediate
  • GermanBeginner
  • English (United Kingdom)Expert
  • French (France)Beginner
  • UrduBeginner
  • SpanishBeginner
  • Spanish (Spain)Beginner

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Mumbai 2950:10729
Why: I moved back to mumbai and I'd like to be participate in cs activities here...
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Couch Available: Coffee or a drink
Preferred Gender: Any

Ok...Heya everyone!! I just got married in June and am still adjusting to domestic bliss :p however currently I am living both in Mumbai(my parents) and in Pune(my husband). I am still planning our crazy Indian wedding later this year with festivities etc and so m time is occupied with that and other stuff. I never thought planning a wedding is SO much work.Anyways, I am open to hosting people when I am free or meeting up for a cup of coffee. Here's a description of the couches when they are available :)

If you want to surf with me, please tell me why..I really am not looking for freeloaders..I believe highly in cs, being pretty active on the site myself. Please take the trouble to fill in your profile and tell me a little bit about yourself.

Lets start with a couple of days and see how it goes...If we get along, well it could be a couple of weeks :)

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In the meanwhile,
When I am in Mumbai, I live in South Mumbai..Its easy to get around from here and very easy to access public transportation..Provided I am not busy or traveling, I can definitely show you around, guide you or meet up for coffee or drink...



If I am hosting you, i am inviting you to my home...there are not too many rules, I want you to be comfortable, and want to hang out and learn more about you. Please note however, I will be living with my folks initially, who are super chilled out and easy to be around and hang out with and are a wealth in terms of Indian culture...the history of India,hinduism, music, arts etc. They've lived for over 10 years in the US and traveled extensively, and are always excited to meet my friends and couchsurfers and its always been great times. Dad makes some incredible margharitas :) and Mom spoils everyone with gujarati food.........

the couch:
Two enormously comfortable couches in the living room. Towels, linens and blankets are available.

the ground rules:
-You can go out on your own, but please be back by about midnight. You dont have to be up at the crack of dawn, but need to be a relatively early riser around 7:30 and have breakfast with us.
-There is no lockout but please don't expect to be sitting at home when everyone is out. I do expect you are independent and able to go out on your own to explore the city.
- You are welcome to join in for home cooked vegetarian meals.It would be wonderful if you decide to cook something from where you come should you feel the urge:)
-Please be tidy and mindful that this is my parents' house.
-There is a washing machine if you need to wash your clothes:) and have them ironed
-there is no smoking in the apartment though you can go to the stairwell if you must, and certainly no drugs.
-Internet, local phone calls etc can be made from home
-I would definitely love to give you a tour of south Mumbai, if I'm free
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When I am in PUNE with my husband, I may be able to offer couch in your own bedroom with a separate bathroom. Once again, the basic houserules above still apply...I want you to have a great time, though I really can't be the best guide as I am still discovering the city myself, so would be happy to explore with you.

the couch:
Your own bedroom with a queensized bed. Towels, linens and blankets are available if needed.

the ground rules:
-You can go out on your own, but please be back by about midnight. You don't have to be up at the crack of dawn, but need to be a relatively early riser around 7:30 and have breakfast with us.
-There is a lockout if we are leaving.
- You are welcome to join in for home cooked vegetarian meals or for a meal out. It would be wonderful if you decide to cook something from where you come should you feel the urge:) let us know so we can shop for groceries:)
-Please be tidy and mindful.
-Washing your clothes can be arranged, but please don't do it last minute
-there is no smoking in the apartment and certainly no drugs.
-I would definitely love to explore Pune with you, if I'm free


Contact
Just email me thru cs and I will send you my cell phone number if I am hosting you :) It is hard for me to offer a couch last minute, do plan a bit in advance :)
Happy travels!!

x
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ShAi


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PictureHugo Ferro
22, Male
Sandyford, Dublin
Ireland (Republic of)
Friends since September 2006
"Chat"
Friendship Type: 7 - Best Friend
I vouched for ShAi*
Met in person  
PictureANU*
29, Female
Helsinki, Etela-Suomen Laani
Finland
Friends since November 2006
"Ahhhh I lived with this lovely b***h in Nelson, NZ, after meeting up in Goa & Mumbai.. more good times ahead I suspect ;)"
Friendship Type: 6 - Close Friend
I vouched for ShAi*
Met in person   Surfed30+   Traveled2  
PictureSeth Wright
27, Male
New York, New York
United States
Friends since October 2006
"Met at a lovely gathering at her home :-) And then just became great friends :-)"
Friendship Type: 7 - Best Friend
I vouched for ShAi*
Met in person   Hosted20  
PictureKatryn Kinser
30, Female
Brooklyn, New York
United States
Friends since May 2002
"we met years ago through our exes...they're gone but we're here"
Friendship Type: 6 - Close Friend
Met in person   Hosted12   Surfed14  
PictureMarissa Leib
28, Female
Tucson, Arizona
United States
Friends since January 2001
"We met through a mutual friend"
Friendship Type: 7 - Best Friend
Met in person   Hosted14   Surfed17   Traveled2  
PictureBridget Amy
22, Female
Singapore, (none)
Singapore
Friends since November 2006
"I met Shai in chat, then hosted this crazy lady in NZ"
Friendship Type: 7 - Best Friend
I vouched for ShAi*
Met in person   Hosted2  
PictureDestiny
34, Female
Fussa, Tokyo
Japan
Friends since May 2007
"My Indian sista"
Friendship Type: 6 - Close Friend
I vouched for ShAi*
Met in person   Surfed3  
PictureUmesh Parikh
32, Male
Mumbai, Maharashtra
India
Friends since September 1977
"Shai's known me all my life...i would trust her with it!"
Friendship Type: 6 - Close Friend
Met in person   Hosted7   Surfed30+   Traveled14  
PictureJosiah Hart
25, Male
Mumbai, Maharashtra
India
Friends since January 2007
"smart, witty, talkative with her own fashion line...."
Friendship Type: 4 - Friend
I vouched for ShAi*
Met in person   Traveled2  
PictureAnibal Trejo
35, Male
Barcelona, Catalunya
Spain
Friends since July 2007
"i had the pleasure of hosting her 1 week"
Friendship Type: 7 - Best Friend
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Personal Description

HAHA...how can you sum that up out here?
Anyways, a bit about me...I am fun-loving, crazy, intense, curious, laid back , talkative to a fault, ...I like the arts, music, and learning about other cultures, people, thoughts, ideas and stories....I'm passionate about creating my clothing line, my work.
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TRAVEL
Travel is what i find inspires, thrills and motivates me, expanding my view of the world, people, understanding myself better and an exponential growth that deepens your perspective on the world and o n how to address it...I believe that meeting people and experiences help you understand yourself better....

I love stories, and knights, and castles and swords and magic , and I am curious to see people´s political views and their ideas about society and religion....

I went to Burning Man in '04....if you can survive that week there, you can pretty much take anything into stride:-)....Oh and I survived rush hour in Mumbai on a train, do THAT and you CAN SURVIVE ANYTHING

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WHAT I DO
In 2006 I launched my clothing line in New York, and have realized working for yourself is much more work than working for someone else, but is also immensely more satisfying and fun! I am working with craftsmen in India in order to create textiles for my line and its been an incredible experience. Its the sale part that presents the real challenge...

Taking a break from that I embarked on a year long global trip that was to and did change my perception of a lot of things and made me more sure of certain ways I live life: much more in the moment, without stress and to focus on the very thing you are doing 100%. I also realised that discipline is one of the hardest things to muster and made me realise that I want to spend more time meditating, doing yoga and developing this very elusive quality :)

Having just relocated to India is an interesting challenge. Reintegrating myself into this country after spending almost 8 years in the west is currently what I am doing.


AT THE MOMENT
I just finished working with a well known Non Profit Org that works with slum children as a Creative manager. I loved it..

I recently got married..yikes..to the man who stole my heart! and this was just as crazy as it was unexpected...we're still planning our crazy indian wedding on the original dates later this year...and thus I am pretty busy these days :p I will restart my clothing line in a few months

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WHAT I WOULD LOVE TO DO SOMEDAY
Ideally I'd love to sail around the world and hopefully live on a boat or a promontary, or on a beautiful house on the cliffs by the sea..I love cities but I can't live without the sea ...I love the sea..

How I Participate in CS2

i think after CS went down, I decided that i really wanted to be able to make a difference with CS2...to actively participate to help others understand its value and about making it a stronger community. I think that hosting/ hosted aside...which is btw absolutely incredible, i think just spreading the word is just helping spread the project...

The CouchSurfing Collective in Nelson New Zealand changed my perception of CS forever and I am more deeply comitted to it than ever before...these are the people I have wanted to meet all my life...

and i think the wonder of CS is really the fact that you can then get a renewed faith in humanity, especially when the world feels like it needs it.


As of now though I am hosting sporadically, meeting people on and off and also working on the CS design team as an advisor to finally get the logo going :)

I now have a self imposed travel ban so that I can pursuit my life projects with more commitment and regularity...and am in the process of getting less nomadic and more settled ...at least for a while

Still I would be happy to talk about CS with a member should they have difficulties or questions, though
I would rather talk about you and get to learn more about your life and your experiences.

CouchSurfing Experience

Well I've couchsurfed in the past with various friends and acquaintances all over the world..Its always been fun and a good chance to get a brief glimpse about a person and his/her life in an informal, happy way; with a chance to share and learn something new,with respect to different cultures, lifestyles, languages, everything thereby making it so much more a unique experience.... to generally have fun and hopefully make a new friend...many times really meaningful friendships from chance encounters which have compounded with CS :-)

1. Hosted Sophie from France in NYC
2. Hosted Chris from New Zealand in NYC.
3. Hosted Sean in NYC
4. Hosted Keith Roberts from New Zealand in NYC.
5. Surfed with Sean in NYC
6. Surfed with Kerby McGhee in Anchorage,AK.
7. Surfed with Lauren in Homer, AK.
8. Hosted Ben Drexler from Boulder, CO.
9. Hosted Stefan from Germany in NYC.
10. Hosted Andreas from Germany in NYC
11. hosted Rachel from NY in NYC...:-)
12. Hosted AC and Nic from Canada
13. Surfed with Jose Arcadi in San Juan, PR.
14. surfed with Zuly in San Juan, PR.
15. Hosted both Jose and Zuly in San Juan, PR.
16. Hosted Katerbean in NYC.
17. Hosted Marissa in NYC.
18. Surfed with Marissa in Tucson, Az.
19. Surfed with Rubberbroke in Mumbai, India
20. Hosted Annieup in Mumbai, India.
21. Surfed with Monolita in Cochin, India.
22. Surfed with Zorongo in Goa, India.
23. Hosted Rosiepearl in Mumbai, India.
24. Hosted Zorongo in Mumbai, India.
25. Hosted Rubberbroke in Mumbai, India.
26. hosted Anu* in Mumbai, India.
27. surfed with Mustak Mepani in Jamnagar, India.
28. Surfed with Aparna Shekar in Mumbai
29. Hosted Navin Kurien and Aparna in Mumbai
30. Hosted Javi in Mumbai
31. Surfed with Widget in Wellington New Zealand
32. CouchSurfed with the CSC in Nelson, New Zealand.One of the most incredible CS experiences ever... :)
33. Traveled with Dr.Dance in South Island, NZ
34. Surfed with Kirsty Sarah in Christchurch, New Zealand
35. Surfed with Elsabear in Dunedine, New Zealand
36. Surfed again with Kirsty Sarah, who rocks. btw
37. Surfed with Aaron Leeman Smith in Sydney Australia....cool host ... :)
38. Surfed with Clare de Mayo in Katoomba, Australia
39. Travelled with Steve Gargett in Australia...fantastic experience
40. Briefly hosted Ludovich Hubler in Mumbai and heard about his awesome journey!
41. Met Zelia Breda FINALLY!!!!
42. Currently surfing at MrRico's an INCREDIBLE experience with an AWESOME person...in Montreal :)
43. Surfed with DANI! in Toronto- one of my CS heroes :)
44. Surfed with Elcour in St Catherine's-
45. Met and hosted by Ron/ Grasshopper- a phenomenal being and one of the most special people I have met on CS.
46. Surfed Dani's couch again in Toronto- a special friend and wonderful person
47. Back again at Rico's in MTL
48. Surfed Pupmadness's couch in Seattle, WA
49. Surfed Corey's couch in Bellingham, WA
50. Surfed at Seth Wright's place in NYC
51. Hosted Aldo in NYC
52. hosted Mikky in Seth's place in NYC
53. surfed with Demetrius in the East village, NYC
54. Surfed wih James Caulfield in Brooklyn , NYC
55. Surfed again with SETHNICK along with ANU*
56. Surfed with CIROR in Lisboa, Portugal
57. Surfed with Zelia Breda and Carlos in Aveiro, Portugal.
58. Surfed with Emese , in Porto, Potugal
59. Surfed with Ana and Ricardo in Porto, Portugal
60. Surfed GABS´couch in Porto, Portugal
61. Surfed David Erre´s couch in Girona, Spain
62. Surfed with Anibal Trejo in Barcelona, Spain
63. Surfed with Hannah Caprice in Barcelona, Spain
64. Surfed with KiwiAngela in Vila Nova, Barcelona, Spain.
65. Surfed with Anibal again
66. Surfed with Edu in Sevilla, learned to make Gazpacho.
67. Surfed with Verta Reyes in Sevilla, Andalucia.
68. Surfed with Marcos in Granada....and had a fantastic time.....Learned Spanish, visited the Alhambra, watched awesome flamenco, ate tapas and felt reinspired....
69. Met Manu in madrid and surfed with Jose Ramon had an awesome time hanging out with his friends...
70. Surfing with Aldo in Rotterdam, and hanging out with Chris finally:D
71. Traveled with Chris to Brussels
72. Surfed with Svenjamin...great host and wound up meeting Jay Walker, fellow chaddict..
73. Reconnected and surfed with Cynthia Lewis...an incredibly inspiring woman and hostess extraordinaire ...hung out with Jay and visited the Indian embassy in Brussels for the flag hoisting ceremony on Independence day...first timer for me...:D
74. Met up and surfed with Jeff in Amsterdam
75. Surfed with Madmax1...and met his beautiful bevy of fish:D
76. Visited Hvitsten for a chat meeting and stayed with over 27 couchsurfers near TULL's house in Norway
77. Surfed Perhof's couch in Kil, Sweden along with fellow surfer cold_erin on the way from norway :D
78. Surfed with James, LIVEWIRE in Stockholm Sweden and had a great time with CELTIC_BHOY, CATFROMIOWA, PERHOF and COLD_ERIN
79. Surfed On Thais_Samos with David..great experience of living on a boat
80. Surfed with James Daykin again in Stockholm
81. Surfed with Andrzej in Warsaw..great friend, and host...met Kon and Maia :D
82. Surfed with Sylwana in Warsaw
83. Hosted Sylwana in Warsaw :D
84. Surfed again with superawesome Andrzej Greszik in Warsaw....so much fun...met Promitheus and Maia again...what super fun!!!
85. Surfed with Sonia Mariano in Krakow :D
86. Surfed with SPYRO finaly in Vienna
87. Surfed with Isa in Vienna...and finally met her!!!Met Christine in Vienna after New Zealand :)
88. Surfed with Marcus Eder...:D in Vienna and had a great time ..met Aditya Sengupta and Felix and Birgit as well...
89. surfed with Christian and his girlfriend in Vienna
90. Surfed with Spyro & Isa again in Vienna
91. Traveled with Mikky, Isa and Spy
92. Surfed with Wolfie with Mikky in Salzburg
93. Surfed with Nela(rainowvortex)in Prague...great host, and wonderful conversationalist...comfy couch
94. Surfed with Tridivesh Hitkar in New Delhi
95. Hosted Lady Ri from South Africa in Mumbai...incredible woman, soul sister :)
96. Hosted *katrin* from berlin
97. Hosted Nela in Mumbai
98. Surfed with Treeoflife in Pushkar:)
99. Traveled with ShilpV for a couple of days around Ahmedabad and Modhera.
100. Hosted Adrienne from Ireland for a few days in Mumbai.
101. hosted Tessa from Italy
102. Hosted Arianna from Italy
103. Hosted Spyro ...we've come the full CS circle hosting/surfing and being friends:)
104. Hosted Kerstin from Vienna.
105. Hosted Spyro again:roll:
106. Hosted Kamelito ...seeing him a year and some months after NZ was awesome!
107. Hosted Mikky in Mumbai..cant believe we've met in 3 continents now in less than a year :) it was great to hang with him and Prash
108. Hosted Nic...the crazy lil finger :D:D:D who's not even got her aqua moonshade anymore :(

Interests

I love meeting people from different cultures and countries, travelling, photography, reading , movies, music, languages, poetry, cooking.I enjoy philosophy, politics on a global stage), understanding and discussing socio-cultural and economic changes and events that are shaping the world, as well as film and the arts.

Philosophy

I personally think travelling is important for everyone....it helps you grow, and also broaden your world perspective...it allows one to take each day as it comes and enjoy every experience that you have, long or short...if you meet people along the way, it only enhances it :-)

Be happy no matter what you do..life is too short to be judgemental and bitter...and fear is a figment of our own imagination... it is better to take chances than none at all :-)

Music, Movies, Books

MOVIES. ..so many...definitely more independent... stuff by David Lynch,Fellini,Krystoff Kieslowski,Akiro Kurosawa,Polanski Lars von Trier, Paul Thomas Anderson,Almadovar, Satyajit ray,Anderson,Terrence Mallick ,hitchcock....stuff like Hero, Happy together , Dog Days,and Requiem for a Dream, memento, pulp fiction, godfather series, the life of julien po, citizen kane, mystic river, garden state, a history of violence, fight club, magnolia, amelie, seven samurai, ran, hero, rashoman, the double life of veronique,Run Lola Run, thank you for smoking(brilliant parts to it really) the three colors:red/white/blue etc, the sea inside, the motorcycle diaries, the March of hte Penguins, Blood diamond...

MUSIC..depends a lot on the mood...pretty diverse. I love music..especially discovering different genres of music while traveling...currently faling in love with fado and flamenco :) Music...depends a lot on the mood...Like Miles Davis,Ella Fitzgerald,U2, mingus, pavarotti, James Blunt,coldplay, fountains of wayne, Oasis, the beatles, rolling Stones,g'n'r, Zero seven,Shivaree, Jack Johnson, Prince, Queen, Gin blossoms,Nina Simone, Fiona Apple, Norah Jones, Louis Armstrong, Elvis, Johnnie Cash, Beck, Blur, Dave Matthews,aimee mann, Smashin pumpkins, Garbage,Pink floyd,Jeff Buckley, Gomez, Pearl Jam, Amalia Rodriguez, Mariza, Ana Marou, Enrique Morente amongst others...



BOOKS... some of Joseph Campbell, Salman Rushdie,Kerouac amongst others, Milan Kundera, Tolstoy,..some such as The Power Of Myth, The Hero With A Thousand Faces, The inferno, the upanishads, The Gita, The Fountainhead, Atlas Shrugged, the Prophet, the Unbearable Lightness of Being, Hitchiker's guide to the Galaxy, Angela's Ashes.. .i guess theres too many to list...i wind up reading a lot of non fiction...autobiographies included....love political non fiction and history too.Currently reading Shantaram, the Secret and a Man's search for Meaning..Love poetry tooo...esp, Byron, Keats, Whitman, Kipling, Shelley and Dante.

Types of People I enjoy

I'm a people person...I enjoy swapping stories and hanging out......for the most part I get along well with people who have an easygoing nature, are calm, open and friendly and hopefully have their own perspective on life who have a zest for life and keen on finding solutions, not creating problems.

I like people who have a definite point of view, even if I dont agree with it...Love talking politics,a d about societal norms, organised religion and your views on it ...How you participate in making a difference and what drives you..and motivates you

Teach, Learn, Share

First and foremost i'd love to discuss the CS project and its relevance and how we can all participate in it more actively and make it a better place!

I have worked on CS Communications actively during the NZ collective in the past and currently help with CS Design, so should anyone have a question, want to volunteer etc, please email me. :-) thanks

amongst other things i guess i can teach Hindi, help people plan their trips to India, help out someone who'd like to explore Indian textiles, someone who wants to discuss fashion and fashion business

Currently I am very interested in rural self sustenance and working on environmentally conscious stuff, which would mean a better world and a happier economy. am also looking into starting work incorporating these two so that I work towards conscientious global design.

One Amazing Thing I've Seen or Done

I went to Austria to work with a fashion/textile designer who lived and worked out of a 17th century castle, and spending the summer travelling around to Prague/Vienna etc....i took a year off from school to go there and it turned out be an incredible experience and she is an amazing teacher and had the greatest stories to tell of all her unbelievable crazy artist life. But moving to New york...that was incredible...the city has a vibe that just can't let you be down for long.

Spending a year 2007...traveling, learning ...living and understanding life from a completely different perspective.....the quintessential gipsy...or nomad...or turtle considering i had everything I owned in my backpack..I believe I am a better person for that. I feel incredibly lucky to have had the opportunity and blessed to have found CS and meet an incredible bevy of people whose diversity, experiences, depth, generosity touched my heart and impacted my mind in ways that I hope that I carry some of the learning with me. I KNOW this system works having been a recipient, participant and traveler.

Finding the clarity to pursue my dreams finally, and falling in love with travel...the greatest teacher of them all :)

And surely there will be more to update...:-)

Opinion on the CouchSurfing.com Project

I think this is an awesome idea....i joined it over two and a half years ago, and its just gotten better over time :)..thanks Casey for the introduction!

Its been my way of life before, when i stayed with friends, but CS has been an incredible experience of understanding different people and cultures up close, and really being a local wherever you go, not rely on guidebooks and to really experience living in a place rather than just visit it.

Locations Traveled

TRAVELED: Australia, Austria, Belgium, Canada, Czech Republic, Denmark, France, Germany, India, Italy, Liechtenstein, Luxembourg, Nepal, Netherlands, New Zealand, Norway, Poland, Portugal, Puerto Rico, San Marino, Spain, Sweden, Switzerland, United Kingdom, United States, Vatican
LIVED: Australia, Austria, Czech Republic, India, New Zealand, Spain, United Kingdom, United States
WANTS TO GO: Afghanistan, Antarctica, Australia, Cambodia, China, Ireland (Republic of), Japan, Madagascar, Mexico, New Zealand, Peru, Sri Lanka, Turkey
IS GOING TO: Italy

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From Kerstin Meister
 Vienna, Austria
 Aug 24
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend, Surfed 3 days  
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i had a really great time with shai in bombay. she and her family were really great with us and we had a lot of fun in mumbai harbour with our lightsabers...

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From Umesh Parikh
 Mumbai, India
 Aug 22
Met in person Close Friend, Hosted 7 days Surfed 30 days Traveled 14 days 
Positive

She's my sister :)

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From Destiny
 Fussa, Japan
 Aug 17
Met in person Close Friend, Surfed 3 days  
Positive

Shai, Shai, Shai!!! There ain't no word to describe how fabulous this girl is. She is everything a girl can be, pretty, smart, brave, witty, loving, and soooo much more. One of the things I looked forward the most for coming to India was meeting her. She has given me the full attention and special treatment way beyond I thought I deserved while I was surfing at her place. She's got so much love pouring out of her! When she's got that cutiest smile on her face, it'd be impossible for anyone to find her not loverable. We had so much fun together, spending all night with chitter-chatter, had me covered up with jewelery, and she enabled me for riding camels in Rajasthan by arranging everything (and when I say everything I meant EVERYTHING) with comfortable night train ride with bed, hooking me up with the most wonderful guest house, all during the busiest holiday! I can't wait to see her again and travel together in the future!

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From Richa Sharma
 Bangalore, India
 Aug 12
Met in person  
Positive

...charming gal.. was a nice experience a to meet u.. would certainly look fwd to meet u agn.. have a lovely second inning..

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From W_KHAN50
 Mumbai, India
 Aug 10
Met in person Friend,  
Positive

I have met Shailja so many times at CS meets and CS dinners, but every time I meet her I get to know something new about her personality. She is very enthusiastic about the CS project and is a committed and dedicated member. An asset to CS

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From SUHASH CHHANGANI
 Mumbai, India
 Aug 4
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend,  
Positive

Thank you for ur kind words, advise n generosity! Was a pleasure meeting u!
Wish to meet again soon!

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From Joaquim Correia
 Porto, Portugal
 Jul 29
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend,  
Positive

Hey Shai! Just saw you after a long time! Great time we had in 555 in Porto, great talker and fun! Looking forwrd to meeting you again soon! Beijo*

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From Mar Lombera
 Madrid, Spain
 Jul 26
Met in person Friend,  
Positive

Met the wellCSexpereinced Shai :-), at gateway of India.Had an interesting walk, and a tea in a very nice place!Then had lunch at her place and helped me a lot with advices for my trip in India!!!Open, generous and clear speaker, from whom you can learn many things. Someone not to miss if you have the opportunity!Hope to see you again for sure!!!and your little parrot!!:-)

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From Cyrus Dadachanji
 Mumbai, India
 Jul 24
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend,  
Positive

Shai has a natural ability to cut through acres of bullshit, while having you in splits with her acerbic observations. Well traveled, well spoken, and rather gregarious - always a pleasure to meet.

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From Dhiraj Jain
 Mumbai, India
 Jul 16
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend,  
Positive

Shai opposite to her name. A very bold girl, attached to social works and a fun loving person. Nice to meet you.

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From Marco Zingaro
 Cattolica, Italy
 Jul 4
Only met online  
Positive

Well ... there was too much traffic and not enough time for us to meet face to face, but we did have a pleasant, uplifting, inspiring phone conversation about just about everything. Thanks Shai and hope to actually meet you soon... hopefully very soon in India :)

(Oh wow - Couchsurfing doesn't let you leave Extremely Positive references to people you have not met in person yet. Well I suppose that's reasonable :)

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From UROBOROS
 Palermo, Italy
 Jun 6
Met in person Close Friend, Hosted 4 days Surfed 5 days  
Positive

Shai can take you out of your mind but you always finish missing her. We have shared lots of good conversations over food of any type, drinks, etc. She is very smart and well read person you can really learn form her... and... oh, hell, yeah! She has beocme family.

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From TRAIN OF CONSEQUENCES
 New Delhi, India
 May 13
Met in person Friend,  
Positive

After hearing so much about her from other CSers, finally got to meet Shai for a great dinner with other CSers and friends in Delhi. She is smart, well-read, witty and for sure a world traveller. Really hope to catch up with her sometime soon !

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From August Feist-Schuldes
 Lipari, Italy
 Apr 26
Met in person Friend,  
Positive

Shai is an amazing woman and it can't be said often enough !

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From Arianna Moroder
 Milano, Italy
 Mar 27
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend, Surfed 1 days Traveled 30 days 
Positive

I heart SHAI

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From Amanda Ramirez
 Rancho Palos Verdes, United States
 Mar 22
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend,  
Positive

SO nice to meet Shai in Mumbai. Great to to talk to. We had lunch, and breakfast, shopped around a bit, and hung out at her place. Lovely hostess. Even found me a one time yoga class, which is hard to find in mumbai. She was great. I can't wait to show LA in exchange when she comes to visit.

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From Dr.Ashish Chopra
 Gurgaon, India
 Mar 21
Met in person Close Friend,  
Positive

Shai--an experience which was full of fun,intellectual stimulation,and exchange of common interests--I guess we hit off well.she is one person who comes across as warm,kind hearted and a happy soul with an infectious smile.
Keep the spirit going my friend.You do bring joy to other people's lives.
peace and grace

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From Chandraprakash Mittal
 Mumbai, India
 Mar 21
Met in person Good Friend,  
Positive

We can only say that ShAi is amazing in all respect.A real GEM of CS.
It is always great to meet her and talk to her.

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From Gopal Mirchandani
 Mumbai, India
 Mar 13
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend,  
Positive

Met up with Shai at the sea food dinner..Followed up with an engaging dinner at the Yacht club along with dr. ashish chopra..and believe me is is not SHY! she always has a radiating big cheesy smile and a fun person to talk to. She brings with her the cultural assimilation of 7.5 years in the US which is very interesting...look forward to catching up with you again SHY!!!

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From Toni Walia
 Warsaw, Poland
 Mar 5
Met in person Close Friend,  
Positive

She is someone I really wanted to meet. My trip to Mumbai was to make up for missing the chance to host and meet her in Warsaw. Now that I have met the great SHAI, life is complete and I can die and go to haven/hell. She is what everything that everyone is talking about and more. She is simply the best.

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From Seb Bassleer
 Utrecht, Netherlands
 Mar 4
Met in person Good Friend, Traveled 1 days 
Positive

met shai at CS meeting in Delhi and afterwards a few more times with Clare, much fun, time flying etc. unfortunately we couldn't meet at the camel fair...busy bee's we were....

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From Dr. Harpal Singh
 New Delhi, India
 Mar 3
Met in person Acquaintance, Hosted 1 days Surfed 1 days  

Had lots of conversations...A humble soul! A simple SWEET CS ambassador!!!!!She was one of the first person who introduced me to Couch Surfing! I am thankful to her!!!!!Met herself,Martin & seb at Oxford Book store, New delhi; will definately love to meet her again, let's see when God 'n time permits! And i need to meet her again to update this!Till then she should live 'n let live ;peace!

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From REBEKAHCZ
 Prague, Czech Republic
 Mar 3
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend,  
Positive

Shai and I went to dinner and watched movies a few times with our mutual couch surfing friend Nela. She is a good and nice person to be around

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From ADIE D
 Louisburgh, Ireland (Republic of)
 Feb 10
Met in person Close Friend, Surfed 5 days  
Positive

I feel extreemly lucky to have met ShAi. Not only did she (and her parents!) provide me with exceptional hospitality and a fabulous introduction to India, I now have a long term connection with an intelligent, interesting, highly creative and in addition -abosolutly georgeous woman! When I think of ShAi, "watch this space!" comes to mind because I know her life will flourish like the beautiful energy she gives out. I am looking forward to seeing her again in Mumbai but also hopfully on my home turf as well!

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From Tessa Moroder
 Milano, Italy
 Feb 8
Met in person Friend, Surfed 2 days  
Positive

I met Shai on my first real couchsurfing experience. And she made me LOVE it. We had an amazing time in Mumbai, Shai showed me and my siser around, she took us out and her mother cooked a fantastic meal for us. Amazing. I just wish that she will lift her self imposed travel ban soon and come to visit us in Italy. We still have a lot of stuff to discuss!

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From Kelly Anderson
 Northfield, United States
 Feb 4
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend,  
Positive

Shai provided me with some incredible insight on what it means to living in India during such an exciting time of transformation. She seemed excited in Mumbai, and so was I!

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From SHAKEHANDS
 Mumbai, India
 Feb 2
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend,  
Positive

All I can say :
She is different...
:)

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From NEHAL
 Ahmadabad, India
 Jan 18
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend, Hosted 1 days  
Positive

shai is a cool person, fun to hang around with. Although i didnt get to spend enough time with her because of my 'motherly' duties..whatever time spent with her was awesome! we hung around together, went to our school, drove around, chit chatted etc and had a greatttt time.

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From Freak-Wave
 Mumbai, India
 Jan 17
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend,  
Positive

Shai*, one person you know who can talk her self out n make you comofortable in a min
Hope to have more of your travel stories soon

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From JOEACE69
 Mumbai, India
 Dec 23, 2007
Met in person Good Friend,  
Positive

SHAII HAS SOMETHING VERY RARE, SHE HAS GREAT INTEGRITY AND CHARACTER. THE MOST IMPORTANT OF VIRTUES!THATS IT!

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From Rushir Shah
 Ahmadabad, India
 Dec 23, 2007
Met in person Good Friend,  
Positive

It was nice to meet her at CS meet. We even did A'bad heritage walk together. It was a great experiance.

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From Shilp Verma
 Delft, Netherlands
 Dec 22, 2007
Met in person Good Friend, Traveled 3 days 
Positive

Chaiiiiiiiiiiiii!! After missing meeting her in Europe due to her lousy planning skills, I finally caught up with her in Ahmedabad. Great fun to hang out with, especially if you are the listening type (even if you aren't, she'll make sure you become one!!) ;-)

Don't miss any opportunity to host or surf / travel with ShAi*, you will fondly remember the time (if you can survive!). Let me assure all of you, this is the best free advice you'll ever be able to extract out of me!

Statutory Health Warning: Her company is, on the one hand, good for your health since she'll give you numerous opportunities to laugh at her HOWEVER...ever since I returned from Ahmedabad, my ears are hurting, due to excessive over-use... my eyes are hurting from all the three-flash-a-second picture sessions... and I have this terrible cold that refuses to go away!! HELPPPPPPPP!! :faint: :faint: :D

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From desaparecida
 Vienna, Austria
 Dec 20, 2007
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend,  
Positive

we met when shai was in vienna and it was really cool to finally get to know her in person after having read so much from and about her on cs. we went out for dinner and hours passed like minutes - we talked and talked and talked, then marcus joined and we talked even more. shai is a clever girl, very curious and simply a cool person to hang out with. i'm still annoyed that i was too sick to host her, but who knows - maybe next time?

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From Mitesh Dave
 Junagadh, India
 Dec 16, 2007
Met in person Good Friend, Traveled 1 days 
Positive

Shai is a wonderful person. Speaks a lot & u just want to keep listening. She is full of life, carefree & realistic.
We went to visit some heritage places together & its fun being with her.

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From -COSTA- Costantini
 Florence, Italy
 Dec 11, 2007
Met in person Friend,  
Positive

She's the most talented bubble explorer that walks on the planet earth!

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From Rahul Sanghvi
 Ahmadabad, India
 Dec 10, 2007
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend,  
Positive

Oh what do I say about Shai? She is the best person I've ever met on CS. Full of life, down to Earth, very knowledgeable. She has a big travel bug in her. If you get a chance to meet her, do not miss an opportunity.

:-)

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From Aimee Lynn
 Hartford, United States
 Dec 5, 2007
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend,  
Positive

This girl has been there to talk to me when I needed it most. Great person, meet up with her if you get the chance, just make sure you are in a talking mood! ;)

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From MINSKI&MIO
 Helsinki, Finland
 Dec 4, 2007
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend,  
Positive

Shai..I think everythings said already here, so just huge thanks for your help, kindness and company in Pushkar,it was wonderful hope to catch you up in Mumbai(or somewhere alse)!!!

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From TREEOFLIFE
 Pushkar, India
 Dec 3, 2007
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend, Hosted 3 days  
Positive

IT was wonderful to meet and Host Shai.
She is very good at organising meets and get to gether.
She is open minded and of decent nature.
All of above i like her outfits.
LIke to meet her again for some inspiration and improvements in my work and way of living.







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From Anubhav Sinha
 Kolkata, India
 Nov 26, 2007
Met in person Good Friend, Traveled 3 days 
Positive

well.......i think so so much has already ben said about this wonderful person ....what more can i add!!!!...for once lost for words.... hoping to teach her more about bengali sweets in cal soon!!!

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From Dharmesh Thakker
 Mumbai, India
 Nov 25, 2007
Met in person Best Friend, Surfed 4 days  
Positive

shai.. ! lol i am short of words for her.. a wonderful human being.. i had wonderful time with her at pushkar.. and i can say that she will be one great friend i ever met, i really have no words to write much about her.. haha

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From Ram Niwas Khati
 Kekri, India
 Nov 25, 2007
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend,  
Positive

I wanted to meet her long ago because I was eager to know how a person looks like who is so dedicated towards CS. I am much impressed by her simplicity and way of involving in CS. Though officially Ciro and I was organizer of the Pushkar CS meeting- 2007 but it is Shai who organized the meeting everyday during the fair and I was a mere participant in it. Had the Shai had not there the CS meet would not have took place (as it was).
I learnt many things from her and it was great to meet her. I can say that she is CS assets. I invited to visit her at my town but due to unavoidable circumstances she could not, but I am sure that she will visit me next time.

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From Aaron Leeman-smith
 Sydney, Australia
 Nov 24, 2007
Met in person Friend, Hosted 17 days Traveled 4 days 
Positive

shai was a wonderful person to host and is an inspiring global citizen whose optimism will brighten your day if you ever get the chance to met her.

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From Ian and Magda Webster
 Brooklyn, United States
 Nov 10, 2007
Met in person Friend,  
Positive

Shai was not able to give us a couch this time, but gave us her friendship and invaluable advice about Mumbai and India. Great conversation over much needed coffee and Diwali sweets!

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From Lady Ri
 Pretoria, South Africa
 Nov 10, 2007
Met in person Good Friend, Surfed 1 days Traveled 1 days 
Positive

I met ShAi* in Delhi and she brought a little bit of magic to my time there and was destined to be there when I needed moral support most.

When the opportunity arose to surf her couch in Bombay, I jumped at the opportunity. I just had an instant connection and spent many memorable moments with her - among others doing a barefoot pilgramage in Elephanta because my shoe broke. ShAi* didn't walk in my shoes but went barefoot for solidarity. She made my stay with her extremely pleasant and coloured Bombay with a rich palet and warm and abundant weaving!

Didi - I am waiting for the next time destiny brings our paths together!

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From Bridget Amy
 Singapore, Singapore
 Nov 7, 2007
Met in person Best Friend, Hosted 2 days  
Positive

Shai is so incredible!! She arrived in Wellington at 23:30 and we stayed up chatting until 6:30 before deciding we both needed to sleep rather badly. I love chatting to her, she has amazing stories, and even better advice. I promise not to leave her on the train today.... (I will try, but I am forgetful you know??)!!

My big sister who is ROCKIN'!!

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From Tridivesh Hitkar
 New Delhi, India
 Nov 5, 2007
Met in person Good Friend,  
Positive

Leaving a reference for Shai is like drop in the ocean. It was a wonderful experience to host her in Delhi. The best part of her is that she does not take even a second to make even a kid feel comfortable as she always takes the initiatve to start the conversation. Can't recommend her enough......

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From Isabella ...isa... Andert
 Vienna, Austria
 Nov 4, 2007
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend, Hosted 5 days Traveled 2 days 
Positive

Shai knows soooo much about CS and you can talk to her for ages cos she has an opinion on everything. She enjoys meeting new people and spending a lot of time with her hosts. She also knows how to treat swans in a way they don't become bitches immediately!

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From Jiten Gajaria
 Mumbai, India
 Nov 2, 2007
Met in person Friend,  
Positive

Writing references for Shai would be like adding some drops to an ocean. But then can't resist the temptation to write a reference for her after just 1 meeting. Long talks on CS, culture, travel, world politics, books and we realised how similar we are. One thing is for sure, Shai is what I call the quintessential nomad and lives upto it. I surely look forward to the planned trips with her.

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From AMIT SABHARWAL
 Gurgaon, India
 Nov 1, 2007
Met in person Good Friend,  
Positive

she is very down to earth girl and one thing i liked about her being in usa for a very long time she never forgotten the indian culture :)jai hind

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From BRAVE_HEART
 New Delhi, India
 Oct 31, 2007
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend,  
Positive

shai is a true ambassedor ... of life. we met for very short time yet i felt her travellers energy... extremely intelligent and a very good listener .. will meet u again shai to know more about your world

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From Maarten van der Glas
 Utrecht, Netherlands
 Oct 29, 2007
Met in person Friend,  
Positive

With Shai be ready to get into all sorts of interesting situations and get her personal indepth outlook of her on all kinds of subjects. Shai is a very kind person, with her hart on the right place she is always ready to speak her mind.

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From Seth Wright
 New York, United States
 Oct 28, 2007
Met in person Best Friend, Hosted 20 days  
Positive

Shai is such a wonderful host, I had fun for hours at her apartment with wonderful food, good wine, and even better companionship.
Update 2007:
Shai lived with us as a true roommate/friend, and it was awesome. She is first and foremost a true friend that I'm certain I'll know for years to come :-) There aren't enough words to even adequately describe Shai, just meet her, get to know her, and if you're smart enough you'll understand :-)


I'm looking forward to visiting in India :-)
--Seth

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From PINGODINGO
 Matraville, Australia
 Oct 24, 2007
Met in person Good Friend,  
Positive

Shai is wicked awesome. We spent two days in the Blue Mountains walking and slipping and sliding and looking at birds hanging upside down in the rain. My recommendation to you is:

Step one: meet Shai. Step two: Bathe in the warmth radiating from her Inner Spirit. Step three: Walk away smiling like a bastid. :-D

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From Barry Layden
 Glasgow, United Kingdom
 Oct 21, 2007
Met in person Friend,  
Positive

i think the only person who cared what I said about Scotland :D I tend to talk ma wee country up a lot and Shai seemed to love it which is GRAND!! Shai's a nice lass and makes a gOOd VEGGY :( Curry. you still owe me a japati!

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From Nela Rimmerova
 Prague, Czech Republic
 Oct 11, 2007
Met in person Good Friend, Hosted 3 days  
Positive

i met shai in bombay 1 of my favorite cities on CS meeting and i dare to say we liked each other from that moment... her enthusiasm and broad knowledge of many things make her very interesting and fun to hang out with. shai can enjoy active as well as non active time..she came to surf my couch for few days and then returnetd to prague to stay with 1 of my friends. since i had been hosting another friend of mine. i had the oportunity and pleasure of her company while she was in prague on many occassions and i am looking forward to meeting with her and surf her couch in bombay on my next india trip...
ps. about to download prison break s3e4 so hope to c u around for dinner..bring espen..

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From Chiho Shiina
 Ibaraki, Japan
 Oct 8, 2007
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend,  
Positive

We both were CSing in Prague and met through each others hosts! Shai´s an experienced traveller and great to talk to. Thank you for introducing me Stefan. My stay Berlin turned out to be perfect! I hope you´ll make it Berlin, too!

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From ENGELEN
 Prague, Czech Republic
 Oct 7, 2007
Met in person Friend,  
Positive

Three words. Love, Warmth and Intelligence. All in the same package that makes up this woman. Kind of like an Kinderegg. Shai is a wonderful person who is always close to a laugh and curious about stuff. We went and saw titties together and laughed at the other spectators! :)

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From SPYRO
 Kathmandu, Nepal
 Oct 7, 2007
Met in person Good Friend,  
Positive

Soooo Shai* what can I say that hasn't been said? Not much I guess. Shai* stood me up on many many occassions and came to visit recently. We have had some amazing conversations online and now off. She is a Couchsurfer to the core. She can talk a lot but is afraid to swim in the cold Attersee. She is a friend and good guest, simple as that.

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From Aida Tavares
 Aveiro, Portugal
 Oct 2, 2007
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend,  
Positive

We had a very nice beer at Mercado Negro. God! She's talkative.

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From Christine Hinterlang
 Vienna, Austria
 Sep 29, 2007
Met in person Friend, Surfed 2 days  
Positive

We met at the NZ Collective where she was working hard (and hosting us) along with the other volunteers. There I met a wonderful girl with lots of potato caiprinha experience. We have since blazed the party trail in Salzburg ("I think you should leave now...":) and got to hang out in cellars of dodgy pubs, coffee bars and flex in Vienna. Shai* rocks.

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From Marcus Eder
 Vienna, Austria
 Sep 25, 2007
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend, Hosted 1 days  
Positive

ShAi and I spent hours talking and discussing CS and working on the new logo (gave some feedback*gg*) and than talked long and also on the next day....
Look forward to meet her again and she is always welcome back.

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From Wolfgang Bitz
 Graz, Austria
 Sep 24, 2007
Met in person Good Friend, Hosted 1 days Surfed 1 days  
Positive

I hosted Mother of CS and Father of CS !!
shai is a very fascinating. a experienced & grateful woman with a lot of spirits!
Shai posted in the Salzburg-group if she and a friend can couchsurf at someone's flat. and finally i hosted them. it was my first one and i am proud of it! we had a good time in salzburg or didn´t we :) ?
thank you for the pear, i have not eaten it yet! and enjoy the rest of your trip!

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From Virginia Salas
 Salzburg, Austria
 Sep 23, 2007
Met in person Good Friend,  
Positive

I love Shai!!! She's an amazing and beautiful woman (inside and out). From the first time you meet her you can feel the positive aura just streaming out of her. She is glad to express this with an awestrucking smile. She is fun and great to talk to. And apparently with both have simiular clepto tendencies which will result to us slipping a plastic banana or a pear into our bags. I hope to see you soon biatch :) .
It has been an honor.
Police quote " uhh... I think it's better you leave now."

All my love,
Virginia

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From James Daykin
 Stockholm, Sweden
 Sep 18, 2007
Met in person Friend, Hosted 3 days Traveled 7 days 
Positive

well what can you say about shai* that hasnt been stated a hundred times already, shes honest, caring,thoughtful blah blah blah too many words to describe this person in such a small space. it was awesome to meet her in the flesh and wish her all the best for her future travels and will hopefully see her in India where we will have a few beers to catch up on

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From Chris Burley
 Brattleboro, United States
 Sep 16, 2007
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend, Traveled 4 days 
Positive

A bollywood star with a golden heart ... an uncanny ability to hold a decent conversation with tree bark, and never fails to put a smile on others faces!

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From SALZBURGMICHI
 Finsing, Germany
 Sep 14, 2007
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend,  
Positive

met shai* in vienna. she is a person who has much to say and has a pretty impressing humor, can talk and laugh with her about neraly every toppic. i'm sure she' ll give me some advice for my trip to india in november. cu soon michael

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From Maia Gellert
 Warsaw, Poland
 Sep 13, 2007
Met in person CouchSurfing Friend,  
Positive

Wonderful sense of humour, great conversationalist and that type of person u wanna have by your side while traveling. Or while she's traveling. Or actually it doesn't matter - u just don't want her to be too far away :) she's just soooo much fun to be around. And keep in mind that Shai is (what should be taken as a compliment) badly addicted and totally dedicated to CS. Which in fact is the way it should be - CS is or at least should be all about and for people like her. Hope to c u again and with more time this time girl!

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From ANDRZEJ GRZESIK
 Warsaw, Poland
 Sep 11, 2007
Met in person Good Friend, Hosted 5 days