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Overview

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  • Fluent in English; learning Spanish
  • 70, Male
  • Member since 2016
  • Soul Therapy.... removing obstacles to enlightenment
  • BA Expressive Arts CSUS
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About Me

I've dedicated my life to catalyzing God Consciousness for 42 plus years and believe that in ruthless honesty, stillness and in reflection of the truth we are able to catalyze the real awareness of the self as creator and evolve as rapidly as possible through ruthless honesty, never running away or hiding and being Warriors of Love who never abandon anyone or anything, seeing the Divine miracle in everything and being Conscious we are responsible for manifesting all that is our universe......every person in our life is the Divine...if we make a promise or vow it must be honored or we lie to ourselves destroying our character and creating mischief without end. I am ruthlessly honest to help my Self evolve in all who I have manifested into my life

Why I’m on Couchsurfing

I believe in treatment of all as myself, especially when it comes to being honest, because if we lie to anyone we are really lying to ourself and so in as much as I do for the least of persons so I do for myself. At the soul therapy centers I am creating we recognize every person in our lives is there for a miraculous reason, hence couch surfer allows entry of the Divine miracle into my life and the OM Center.

Music, Movies, and Books

As an ASCAP musician I have played percussion for over 20 bands and have broad love of all music and dance, especially devotional kundalini activating dance that opens the heart. I have written three books and made one full length feature video about how we are all connected to everyone in our lives and therefore it is essential to our health to love and treat everyone as ourselves...to lie or deliberately hurt another is the same as doing it to ourselves. Positive energy music movies and books that catalyze enlightenment (also known as ego death!) are my preference.

One Amazing Thing I’ve Done

I have produced fireworks displays around the world in places from Malaysia to Mexico City to Budapest Hungary. More importantly I have assisted in helping people realize their own Divinity and God consciousness through ruthless honesty and never abandoning them. Forgiveness is the highest love there is and unconditional love the only kind that is real.

Teach, Learn, Share

I have been teaching stillness of the internal dialog, love of nature and sharing through my life's examples. I created The Melchisedek Soul Therapy Centers for catalyzing enlightenment Through devotion we can end the insanity of caring what " others" think, ending the mind control and slavery and opening our hearts to God's presence everywhere around us....free at last from fear and societies mind control.

What I Can Share with Hosts

Opening their hearts and souls to enlightenment and healing through ruthless honesty and walks with God. All of my friends are friends for life, and become part of my life for profound miraculous reasons... together we are here to catalyze enlightenment and ego death to raise Consciousness from hedonism, selfish dishonesty and egomania to service to all the children of the planet through seeing the Divine everywhere, beginning with those whom we have married with sacred vows before God to love forever and then extending that love to everyone on the planet and all the plants especially. The wind is actually our souls reminder that when we live a truthful righteous life the winds are peaceful and even still, and when we are dishonest the winds are violent to the extent our thoughts are.

This article sums up my passion for truth and love;

How to be a Warrior of Love...

“Listening” by Adam Scott Miller

When the ancient Egyptians prepared a body for its journey to the afterlife, they knew to throw the brain away and keep the heart intact. The heart has an enormous magnetic field, about 60 times more powerful than the brain. It is an area of incredible spiritual potency and consciousness. The root of the wisdom eye is in the heart. It is the place where all differences dissolve, and polarities collapse. The heart is also symbolized as the wish fulfilling jewel, held by Bodhisattva of compassion, Chenrezig. Our physical heart, namely the Bundle of His, is where the spark of life enters our body. In order to receive this energy, the heart itself must be unconditionally receptive and resonate with the deepest universal truths. To take the heart as your path to spiritual awakening is perhaps the most direct and difficult of all paths, thus the one who follows love must become a warrior.

A Warrior of Love allows themselves to feel and embrace the full spectrum of their emotions without becoming identified with judgment or fear. They transform themselves through the power of bringing unconscious emotions into the light of awareness. It is a path of unwavering presence and relentless devotion.

For many people, love is an experience that is idealized to great proportions. Many believe that once they find the right mate, life will be complete. And if they don’t, they have failed somehow. Movies and culture teach us that romantic fulfillment is reliant on chance or some mysterious influence, when truly, we have not learned how to love ourselves or one another. We don’t understand how love’s medicine works.

Rather then trying to avoid pain and conflict, Warriors of Love EXPECT the sting of unconsciousness to arise when opening their hearts to another. It is through the very process of loving that distortions are stirred up from the depths and made visible. Intense love calls up the darkest shadows. The strongest affinity rouses the most ferocious demons.

“The essence of warriorship, or the essence of human bravery, is refusing to give up on anyone or anything.”
― Chögyam Trungpa Rinpoche

We must break the conditioning that expects the “right” partnership to feel good all the time. Of course it is not healthy to stay in a pattern of suffering that never evolves. However, there is no “special” kind of love to hold out for, there is only love, and the willingness to grow — or not.

True love is merciless, the ultimate solvent. It is a bright mirror that reflects all the wounded places we’ve rejected in ourselves, leaving us with only two choices: to recognize the pain that dwells inside and embrace the opportunity to release these wounds, or run from the pain and blame our friend or partner as the source of our suffering. In these pivotal moments there is potential for either deepening our trauma or retrieving fragmented, rejected parts of ourselves. As we cease to protect our weakness, love’s unifying power is able to open us into deeper joy and integration. Our weakness unguarded becomes a strength.

Warriors of Love choose to move in the direction of expansion and unity, rather than containment and control. Consciously releasing fears and insecurities whenever they are noticed, pain is taken as an opportunity for awakening.

If you are hurting, whether alone or with a partner, sit in your pain with a curious mind and open heart. It will eventually break open into something beautiful. It has to.

Real love will challenge you on every level, expose all the dark and ugly places you’ve judged or rejected in yourself, and ultimately annihilate your identity as an individual, separate being. Real love is terrifying. A pure force of ego annihilation. So many turn from or destroy that which awakens the deepest stirring of our hearts. A Warrior of Love understands this and embraces the challenge to keep opening despite the fear of rejection or loss.

Our deepest unconscious fears are exposed through loving deeply. Intense unions have greater capacity for enlightenment, thus the shadow is stronger. If both of you can bear the shadow without losing consciousness, the rewards are immense. As Peter Murphy of Bauhaus so aptly put it, “The passion of lovers is for death.” The death of the ego, the death of separation. Warriors of Love understand that their quest will ultimately lead to death, or as some call it, enlightenment. Yet they choose to continue on, fearlessly vulnerable, expressing their deepest heart regardless of outcome.

Those who embrace their darkness will live in light I dedicate this passage to Kelly Durkin.

Countries I’ve Visited

American Samoa, Austria, Bahamas, Canada, Denmark, Egypt, Fiji, France, Germany, Greece, Hong Kong, Hungary, Italy, Malaysia, Mexico, Switzerland, Turkey, United Kingdom, Vatican City State

Countries I’ve Lived In

China, Fiji, Hungary, Mexico, United States

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