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Phoenix Phoenix

Ho Chi Minh, Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam

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Overview

  • 8 Positive References1 Negative
  • Fluent in Vietnamese; learning English
  • 32, Female
  • Member since 2012
  • Gambler
  • Bachelor Degree
  • From Ho Chi Minh
  • Profile 100% complete

About Me

CURRENT MISSION

Holy Grail seeking and Love Making

ABOUT ME

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PHILOSOPHY

Eat the pie while still hot.

Why I'm on Couchsurfing

HOW I PARTICIPATE IN COUCHSURFING

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COUCHSURFING EXPERIENCE

Austin UptoNoGood commented on WARNING: Dạt Huy Hotel

P/s: not all men are the same so please stop generalize shit. Not only vietnamese men hit woman but also around the world.I don't know what your deal is - trying to be an attention whore , or you have daddy issues. I dont know where you get your hatred from but if you keep spreading it and making it into the bad images to the world, next time I see you I will bitch slap you fo real girl. And I don't care whatever you talk about me.Kthxbye."

Here is what Austin pointed out to me when I showed my opinion about Viet men who tend to use their fist against women. The argument starts from the story which is about the girl staying in Dat Huy hotel and the guy who works for the hotel (maybe a family member of the hotel owner) unlocked her room watching her sleeping naked. When she complained to the hotel owner, he said she made up the story and the guy who peeped her even threatened to hit her.

I really hate male assholes who use their physical strength to treat women violently. That is the reason why I got angry and upset about what happened to the girl. Treating women with violence is a very common issue in this society, whether the men are well-educated living in a big city or in a farm. Yes, of course this happens everywhere in the world, but here in VN, the woman herself barely has the support or protection from community, until she gets beaten to death by her husband. I do not have time to explain about it due to my limitation of English. You should stay longer in VN to understand the matter and read papers and meet more women to hear their side of the stories.

I was born in this country and have traveled from the very southeast to the north of VN. I love the scenery of my countries, friendly and cheerful people. But some people here from couchsurfing, most of them are Viet men (of course) and friends of this guy tried to turn it into a “country smearing” issue and this guy Austin used very crude words and threaten to hit me according to his post as you can read, and then wrote a lying reference about me, took advantage of his English ability to change the truth and insulted me to CS community.

What he did to me is intentional. I am not his only victim; I have seen many patronizing posts of this guy aiming at other new local CSs’s idea/opinion. He may be kind to you CSs because you are tourists and foreigners (he benefits from it) but according to what he wrote on here to Viet CSs I never think of wasting my time going to a party where there is a self–centered clown. I would never get offended against this guy unless he threatened to hit me and called me an “attention whore”. You should use those words to yourself Austin, for what you have done to other local CSs, talking down on them to make yourself Mr. Right.

I am very new to Couchsurfing. I traveled to Thailand for weeks on my own and met so many interesting ppl out there on the way. I was very surprised and happy to get many supports from kind-hearted strangers around the world. A Thai guy offered me a place to stay when I was walking on the beach in the middle of the night and he thought I could not find a guesthouse because all of place was full in high peak season. Or a Thai farmer on the train to Surat Thani gave me a pack of sweet, gave me his mattress and helped me everything. Or a cool British man working in Viking bar (in Tonsai bay) gave me his bed when I could not find a place to stay. A group of youth from America asked me to sleep in their tent. ..So many many stories untold about wonderful people, both tourists’ back-packers during my trips…. Most of people I met do not even know what Couchsurfing.com is. So I can tell whether CSs here misunderstand me due to this guy’s lying negative reference against me, I will still be fine with my trips. Cheers.

P/S: Ive been busy with my job and sport stuffs but happy to meet ppl on weekends for sharing a drink/nice conversation/traveling experience. Moving to new place and hope to have chance to host nice interesting CSs. Private message me if you care.

Interests

Smoke, drink and beat the shit out of assholes.

Music, Movies & Books

I dont read books, watch movies/TV or listen to any kind of music. I am basically blind/deaf and dumb.

Teach, Learn, Share

Couch surfers=Cheap tourists

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