Friend ask for help
I was returning from my training session whn some happy guy from 10m of me starts speaking to me, "what you have there friend?", i was carrying wooden stick called hambo. He grabs my hambo, and asks what is that, i didnt left the hambo, so he said that he just wants to see it. I realease the grip of hambo and he examines it, my name engraved at the bottom of the stick. We didnt stop walking, we passed some 30m when he begins his story, returning hambo to me. He is in some problem, he needs a phone for just a minute to call someone, and he will pay me some cahs. I look at him, say "i have phone, but i do not know you and i cannot give you the phone". I began gatting that combat feeling, adrenaline surge, feeling that i was begging to rage, but i kept my cool. He was angry. He begins shouting and threating, i have just said "bue" and left the scene. Dude was stil there not moving. He could have earned himslef pretty bad injuries from me then. But it is not the point to fight with idiots.
When someone approach you with friendly mood, asking for favor, for a loan, to go with him just there he wants to ask you something be very hard and confident if you arent already and in nice way bug them off. Say "i am in a hurry" and walk and if he says something back, ignore him! If someone asks for money it would be better to say that you spent all just a minute ago, that you didnt take your wallet with you and walk. It is not smart to fight with these pople, many of them have guts to use bladed weapons and even firearms, the smartest solution is just to avoid in a nice and polite way as much as possible.
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