CURRENT MISSION be a goddess ABOUT ME **blows the dust off** returning to couchsurfing after a hiatus of a few years.. My sister calls me the Grumpy Ladybird but I think it's cuz she's jealous- (we are ex-Siamese twins now separated and I got a bit more brain in separation process). I live in Auckland with my nutbar family and we have a cat. Will possibly be moving back to Wellington to a house with goldfish if I can ever overcome my anxieties. PHILOSOPHY If you wait by the river bed long enough, the bodies of your enemies will float by... -if this seems a rather bitter outlook on life, it's mainly to keep me calm as i deal with custody issues and other irrelevant dramas. Keeps the perspective juice flowing.