I'm an honest and trustworthy Christian man. Be yourself and have fun... One of my mates died earlier last year. He was only 38. If I could offer one piece of advice, it would be this: Stop wasting your life on the pursuit of the hottest guy, or riches, or finding some excuse to look down your nose at someone. Spend your time loving God and seeking His Holy Will. Be open to love in the unlikeliest of places. Does anyone want to have some beers and watch the Bachelor?