Happy living in Jersey since 2006, after time in England and Italy. I'm open minded and gay friendly. I enjoy massage, relaxation and well-being, often out walking, sea swimming and outdoors but I'm not a fitness fanatic. I appreciate fine buildings, the arts (especially paintings) and learning from others. Good, simple, healthy home made food. I'm very self sufficient and independent, and I prefer similar individuals. yet I value connecting with those genuinely interested in and curious about others. I do plan and I struggle with people who live all 'last minute' - but don't live my life aiming to tick off boxes on a 'to do' list. Taking time to do things a bit more slowly can pay great rewards. Let's not rush when we can.