Heidelberg

😜 Eximious, ostrobogulous, "ultra-spiritual", and altruistic cyber security analyst.... ...welcomes you to Heidelberg. One of the most romantic baroque towns of Germany - situated in the Rhine-Neckar Metropolitan Region at the Neckar river valley, surrounded by the scenic Bergstraße and Odenwald. A historical UNESCO city of literature with many poets, philosophers and scientists that thrived in Germany's oldest (founded 1386) and very reputable (51 Nobel price winners are connected to Heidelberg as of 2023) university - supported by a science hub (e.g. EMBL, DKFZ, 4 Max Plank Institutes), and home to some of Germany's most successful companies (SAP, BASF, Capri Sun, Heidelberg Materials and Lamy)... - I ENJOY INTENSE, CAREFREE AND SENTIENT BEINGS - I BUILD MY HAPPYNESS ON HAPPYNESS OF OTHERS - I probably DO NOT ACCEPT REQUESTS ≥2 WEEKS IN THE FUTURE

I lived abroad for a few years and hosted a lot of travelers back then. I've now established my home base in Heidelberg, right in the center of the old town and I'd be happy to host you for a few nights. I teach English and German at the University of Heidelberg and I spend most of my free time with my dog, paddling on the river, doing archery, eating out, playing video or board games. For surfers: Please only stay with me if you are comfortable around dogs.

Travelling and see not just the German way of living I am open-minded, polite, curious, intersted in People and countries but also in their culture, history, want learn and refresh my languages, love to be spontaneous, like different Kind of Music and culture activities, like to learn more about the common items we have but also intersted in the difference of People and cultures, tolerant, optimistical, etc..... PHILOSOPHY Carpe diem, because you never know when it is your last day at this beautiful earth.

Heidelberg CS Stammtisch had now two successful quarterly events with more than 10 people showing up in both cases, so I would say it is now stable. Next event in Heidelberg: https://www.couchsurfing.com/events/heidelberg-quarterly-get-together-heidelberg A quick note on navigation COFFEE Requests go directly to the ‘things I have done / things I can share / hobbies section’. HOSTING requests please make sure you have read my profile, keep your request *short* (!!!), and ensure you have a complete profile for me to look at. (Minimum 10, better 20+ References, descriptive text including hobbies, 10-15 photos, 80% straight decline for lacklustre/short profiles). ------------- *Empty decline* After about 2000 received requests in the time 2013-2019 in HK and Tokyo and a couple of complaints after declining including some recommendations on how to improve the profile I now out of principle do the 'empty decline' without comments or giving reasons. If you thus get an empty decline it is usually a combination of lack of photos, lack of a reasonable number of references or just short text on your profile, i.e. I do no know enough about you from reading your profile that makes me want to host you and possibly have to conclude that you could not be bothered to really spend a lot of time honing your profile. So to be clear - having a properly filled out profile is the sine qua non condition on getting hosted - or in other words - not sufficient but definitely necessary! HOW TO GET A HOST - please just write me just 2-3 sentences (!!!) with the preferred nights (max 3), and a cue/mentioning the key aspect you want to stay at my place / think I would want you to stay at my place, then let your profile speak for you. If you are two people then I also need the link to the CS profile of the other person. That is all that is necessary. So here are the five magic sentences (they by the way also work well with other hosts). A. "Reference /Vouch" : "XYZ whom you know / knows you well vouches for me and recommended me to stay with you" - a mutual friend (by far best option) who recommended you to stay with me and would vouch for you as a good guest in a separate message to me- look me up on Facebook and see whether you are lucky to be mutually connected by a friend who would write you a support message. B. Alma mater: "I also went to Oxford/Cambridge and we even studied the same thing" - you are from my alma mater (Oxford (Cambridge also Ok) and we also share a mutual academic interest you want to talk about, can banter about rowing and college life etc. C. Hobby: "I also row/am a hobby ancient historian / am a social psychologist or sociologist…" we have a mutual hobby of mine you want to explore (see below) D. Teaching/ Skills barter: "I can cook Aloo Ghobi, Panna Cotta, can train you to tidy up Marie Kondo style or play the Ukulele and would be happy to teach you " - : Skills Barter model: Hobby / Recipe / Capability of yours you wish to share with me. This does not include cleaning and cooking as a service / working holiday model. E. "Date app swipe": "I like your profile, lets have a bottle of wine and see if we hit it off ". This is the equivalent of "I would have swiped right if this was a dating app and would love to get to know you". It is a request for a coffee/wine - getting to know. Regardless of outcome you are still staying in the guest room, conversation plus optional snog not invitation for ONS. Basically CS/Hosting etiquette is loosely that female/ courteous guest can initiate without putting the male/host into an awkward position, whereas the opposite usually doesn't work/is not cool. NEWBIES: If you are a newbie read the full page here (I put a long description into the section Roommate Situation) and you get a lot of hints how to tweak your profile. Also maybe meet you at the Heidelberg or Mannheim CS Meetup, then feel free to ask me for a bed there and then again. Newbies generally have a bad reputation for being unreliable and unpredictable, last minute cancellations, unreasonable requests etc., which is why it is difficult getting a host as a Newbie. That is why it is important that in this case your profile is really interesting and you really specify why you want to get hosted with the person you are requesting. In Tokyo and Hong Kong I used to get about 40 requests per month (100 in prime season) and aimed to host about one or two singles/couples/friends travelling together. I look primarily at the profile, read it thoroughly ( I will spend much more time on your profile than your message, I do want to know who I host in case I decide to), and then hit the accept or decline button, as I see fit. Usually after reading a profile I just know whether I want to host you or not basically going by a good gut feeling developed in having hosted about 100 times now. Thus don't spend a lot of time on writing a long message, just which two days you wish to be hosted and why you want to meet me (as opposed to go to a hostel or another host) - please select and mark one of the options given above - really no need to write more than 2-3 sentences: Please note I host usually for two nights at a time, extensions are offered spontaneously, but not on request and not before. Requesting for more than two nights means you either have not read the profile or have a good reason to believe I would want to host you for more nights (a vouch from a mutual friend is usually sufficient). --------------------------------- A note for hosting Ukrainian refugees My place is only suitable for a first stop for maybe two weeks max. It is rather small, others have better places. However if rather than going to a public housing or a family you rather stay with me, please just contact me, I am genuinely happy to help, can put some food on the table, and have a safe space where you can just relax for a few days, listen to music, read, and just "arrive". I would empty my working room and put one or two matraces on the floor. My apartment is not really suitable for registration. I am a good host as a Couchsurfing host, but may not be the best as a refugee / family host. I have been hosted a few times by couchhosts when I was backpacking in Odessa and Kyiv in 2010/2011, and am very happy to return the favour. However if we really get along well and genuinely click, all bets are off. I have had old friends stay for several months in my apartment, and when I was in Tokyo a couple of couchsurfers stayed also several weeks. But for that we need to get on really well so no guarantees.

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