I'm a pretty good listener who's also low maintenance and removed from situations enough that there's relatively low risk in talking to me about anything. I'm fine when left on my own, but I also love to be taken along as a companion to different places and events. My Japanese is not fluent, but it's good enough that I can understand most things that are said to me and speak with reasonable proficiency. I can teach a few phrases or translate some things (vary helpful if you want to order something from Japan!)

Star-gazing taking pictures of nature singing in English (and a few songs in other languages) talking to people about their lives Topics of gender and sexuality, non-normative identities