I am 40yrs a single dad and am looking to find someone, but not a girlfriend. After years of slowly losing my mojo and sexual confidence, I am slowly rediscovering my drives and desires and now want to find someone to explore that with. Basically, I want someone to have sex with and not much else. I don’t need or want a mother figure for my child, and as nice as it would be to have dinner and a drink, that is really as far as I want things to go. I am looking for a semi-regular hookup with someone I can get to know over time and explore my sexuality, but I am not ready to actually meet someone for the longer term.