Update 20 April 2025: Recently I had such a devastating experience from an Iranian guest which left me broken and in tears. It's good he wrote to me many things on whatsapp too so now i have evidence too but even if i didn't have evidence i know i'm not lying so i don't care if someone doesn't believe me. I gave him a very good big fully furnished room with an attached big bathroom and toilet, unlimited supply of various kinds of foods, unlimited access to the kitchen and a lot more. This room can be seen in their insta stories where there are happily making videos and even i took some photos happily when they were showing me their purchases of garments and shows. They even made my video and uploaded to their insta with lies in the captions. I was thinking they're being friendly. When they went away they wrote to me on whatsapp i should not have been in the kitchen while they were there. The kitchen is big by the way, many people can easily fit in there. So i'm just writing this to let future guests know if you hate my company, let me know in advance because unfortunately i cannot read minds.

There was a time when this room was not even furnished and people used to sleep on the mattress on the floor and were happy and often i didn't even give a separate room but shared my own room and even single ladies lived happily and never complained.

Now this Iranian couple is complaining that I didn't give them the best room that I had. I think I did give them a very good room but they wanted access to all the 4 bedrooms. They left this one too in a mess, if i would give all the rooms how would i do so much cleaning alone? I don't mind, I know I'll have to do cleaning, washing etc after guests leave. It's ok. I never complain, never become angry or strict but I can somehow manage one room with difficulty in this old age and illness. Secondly, I gave them the best foods, all that i had but they are saying i did not give enough and that i was selfish.

Thirdly they are saying i should not have given them company due to some strange reason i don't know most probably it's racism or prejudiced, hate based on age or race i don't know but they did keep talking a lot about my age and called me old man and said they did a favor on me by staying with me because i'm old man n told me hundreds of times they are very good civilized people. So i don't mind if you hate me because of my age or race, skin color or whatever reason, biased people can even smell stink from people they hate but only as a perception, so whatever the reason is, i will respect your wishes and will not give you my company, but you have to tell me about it in advance and not complain after you have left. Again, i cannot read minds.

And you know that Pakistani people spend a lot on foreigners so if you want to take advantage of that, u are most welcome, i'll be most happy for you, you are welcome to stay with someone who will take you to very expensive restaurants, and most Pakistanis do it so it's not difficult to find such hosts. Just don't complain later on that i didn't spend thousands or even hundreds of thousands on you, as i do know people who take foreigners to far away cities in their car and spend a lot on tours so that's spending hundreds of thousands on you and i am happy for you and for them, but if my company is giving you disgust than tell me about it in advance, but i will still be in the kitchen, you cannot tell me to leave my house or to leave my kitchen. I cannot even describe the extremely uncivilized hate messages this Iranian couple have sent to me.

By the way the wife of this Iranian man also has negative references showing similar behaviour. And before the gas issue they were thanking me so much and so happy telling me this is the best room and that they will write TWO positive references for me. And she made a video sitting very close next to me saying some poetry but now they're slandering me by saying she was scared of me! So she was sitting very close to a man she was scared of and laughing being happy and making videos.

Everything they are saying is a lie! The way they are describing my house as if it's hell and i'm a monster why didnt they leave? They had so many friends in Karachi, why they chose to stay with me at such a bad place and took such a risk with a man they were scared of? These people just feel extremely entitled and are very demanding they want more and more pampering. Just before the gas incident in the evening before they left next morning they were saying they are very happy staying with me and that it's best room they got and that they even sleep on dirty floors and i even saw on their social media sleeping on the floor in a shop so they were actually happy but the gas went and i'm not responsible for it and i informed them many times even in their language and still there was enough time for cooking and we cooked and they ate but still it made them angry. And after they left there was poop everywhere i can show videos of that too. Other people are also witness to it.

Fully vaccinated. 2 shots plus booster.

I love people, coffee, animals, nature, people, sincerity, honesty, cultures, people, cuisines,

I try to live a simplistic ecological lifestyle. I would like to learn more about ecological living from people experienced in it.

I avoid using the four letter "h" word, because there is love in my heart, but i hate elitism and the elitist mindset.. Unfortunately, i live in this environment, therefore there's not much i can do about it but to accept it.

I dislike hypocrisy, elitism and double standards.

Note: I am NOT gay. (Note: I did not write this to express my dislike or discrimination against the LBGT community, but to let people know, because of some experiences).

Why I’m on Couchsurfing

For the people to people connection.

I love, love and love, but i hate hypocrisy, lies, cheating, dishonesty and deception, and most of all, elitism, and everything that is associated with it, especially the elitist mindset.

Interests

I would like to learn how to play guitar and learn the Chinese language.

• birds
• arts
• singing
• human rights
• cooking
• coffee
• running
• traveling
• magic
• music
• guitar
• religion
• volunteering
• people

Music, Movies, and Books

All.

One Amazing Thing I’ve Done

Amazing people do amazing things. I am not amazing, but I have hosted some of the most amazing people.

Teach, Learn, Share

To my CS friends: It is from you that I learned to laugh again. You accepted me as an equal, despite the age, race, social status differences. This is what I love about you. For you, age is just a number.

So I am grateful to you for calling me your friend. After years of silence and isolation, suffering from the class system of elitism and narcissism, I came out of seclusion, because of you. And, you didn't judge me negatively. I learned so much from everyone. Thank you.

So, I'm a learner, a student, not a teacher. I value everyone equally and learn from everyone. I'm an observer. Not a leader.

If i do something for you, it's is a selfless act of love, kindness for the love for humanity. So i assure you it will be sincere, genuine, selfless, and honest. I will do my best, but i don't hold or assure any ultimate responsibility. If something goes wrong, please don't blame me.

What I Can Share with Hosts

space, food, talk, walk, coffee, tea, hiking, smile, cooking, run/jog at the park or workout at home. Sorry for too much details :) :) :) just sharing some of the small things that i love, and would love to share with others. I don't need a lot to be happy or satisfied.

Better if you have a local number, because i don't have a bell at the gate.

NOTE: I do not have any kind of transport. I mostly use public transport like bus or bike from the apps Indriver, Yango, Careem, Uber or Bykea.

Countries I’ve Visited

Afghanistan, Kyrgyzstan, Pakistan, Russian Federation, United Kingdom, United States

Countries I’ve Lived In

Pakistan, Russian Federation, United Kingdom, United States, Uzbekistan

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