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Overview
About Me
Hi! I am Jia Wei. Please don't call me "Jia" as East Asians have double first names - for example hyphenated like Zhi-Hui, joined like Xiaotong and spaced out like Jia Wei - little tidbit for anyone!
I am a seasoned Couchsurfer and have been couchsurfing since I was 18. Today, I am 28 and have hosted many and have been hosted by many as well. I have many friendships deeply founded upon by the shared experience of Couchsurfing and I have so many stories to last many, many, campfires on all the people who have shaped me and lighted so many paths in my life just by meeting them. I am forever grateful for all the surfers and hosts I've met, they have deeply etched and touched my soul in so many ways - we'll have a conversation about this if and when we meet :)
I am Malaysian and currently living in Cardiff, Wales. I have a huge passion in learning absolutely everything, and especially love stargazing and learning languages. I love, LOVE people as well and can strike up a conversation with anyone of all ages (that's my superpower) and I have a huge space in my heart for humanity, and calling humanity out if needed. Outside of my job I am a fierce activist in intersectionality - from decolonisation, indigenous and climate justice, dismantling systems of oppression - come to get to know me with an open soul!
One thing I need you to respect is my identity and my pronouns - I am a transmasc going by he/they pronouns - am very happy if you ask me what this is and I will happily educate you with an open heart! Please do not request for my couch if you are transphobic, homophobic, xenophobic, racist, islamophobic, zionist, or fascist. Also, I am pro-Palestinian and if you don't share the same sentiment we cannot co-exist together 🍉🍉🍉
Why I’m on Couchsurfing
I was at an open house celebration for Eid, and my aunty was telling me how her daughter brings random strangers into their home for Couchsurfing, and I was curious! Decided to try it for Japan, and I was immensely hooked. I first went onto Couchsurfing to save a lot of money travelling as the Malaysian currency is really low in value, but through that, I found out it is SO much better than hostels and Airbnbs.
The couchsurfing spirit is peak golden, and everyone I've experienced it with shares it wholeheartedly. The community shares what they have genuinely without asking for anything back, and every host is a unique personality and an abundance of brilliant experience like no other. I learnt so much for them and I experienced cultures and environments as how a local would. It's such a deep honour to be experiencing a place in a local's eyes and it's absolutely beautiful. I would like to share it with every person I meet everywhere I go :)
Interests
Movement, movement, movement!! The moment you meet me, you'll see that I hate sitting down ;D I prefer standing up than sitting down, I could move for hours! I have undiagnosed AD(H)D and I'm proud of my hyperactivity! I say "proudly" because, in case if your cat was up on a tree and is afraid to come down, or you accidentally hit your ball onto the roof - no worries! I could definitely get it down ;)
I enjoy just Being. I am so immersed in the present, that the past and future hardly affects me, which I am very proud of ^^ Therefore, if I am spending time with you, I will be wholeheartedly spending time with you. I would listen to the trees, the waves, get immersed in a full blown waterfight, see how the birds fly, learn your culture and your language wholeheartedly, and enjoy every single small moment any place :)
- languages
- psychology
- cultures
- life
- parkour
- community
- movement
- movement culture
- playgrounds
- motivation
- earth
- helping others
- indigenous culture
- all the little things
Music, Movies, and Books
Music: Anything which grooooooooves! I have a friend who calls me a "melomaniac", which means I listen to everything good :) However, if I really have to narrow it down, I love film scores/movie soundtracks, electronic imaginative music, indigenous world music, gooood funky/jazz/bluey music AND MUSICALS!!! I'm OBSESSED with musicals, so if you have some recommendations, please do recommend me!
-- I'm a kid at heart! :D --
Movies: Anything which inspires me. Movies that hold wholesome meaning, etc: We Bought A Zoo, lots of Disney/Pixar (Finding Nemo, Up, Mulan, Tarzan, Brother Bear), superhero movies, family films (Cheaper By The Dozen, School of Rock). Even if it's heavy and meaningful (etc: Imitation Game, Interstellar, , it makes me strive to do better in life :)
Books: I don't read a lot now since I'm into motion, but I was obsessed with lots of young adult fantasy AND spy stuff last time - Septimus Heap, Harry Potter, The Guardians of Ga'Hoole, Eragon, Warriors, Todhunter Moon, The Chronicles of Narnia, Spy X, Dan Brown books
One Amazing Thing I’ve Done
Hmm...
- Trying to climb up the 8th floor of a Japanese shopping mall and then jumping down using the parkour method when we heard the security guard coming
- Doing a social experiment by randomly pointing at the sky in Korea, and people actually looking
- Went on my solo Mexico trip (40 day trip) with absolutely no plans beforehand
- Bagpacked in Rome. Literally. Just a schoolbag for 7 nights.
- Survived 2 nights in Iceland with 2 British Pounds.
- Watched a movie in every cinema in Cardiff for free, legally
There are so many weird random occasions ;P
Teach, Learn, Share
As I am fluent in Chinese, English and Malay, and a little bit Japanese, feel free to ask me if you'd like to learn any of these languages! :D
Also, if you are stiff in any areas, I could give you some advice (based on my movement journey) on mobility, beginner parkour, doing hand puppets (heh! something I discovered when I was 10!), making music, playing the piano, guitar, ukulele etc.
And last but not least, Malaysian culture! I can cook for you, share our beautiful diversity and how we are a cultural melting pot and why I absolutely love home :)
I would LOVE to learn anything - if you have any special talents, feel free to teach me! I am very curious in learning everything!
What I Can Share with Hosts
You can use my washing machine, dryer, fridge, freezer, stove to make your own meals. Also the best places to visit around Cardiff and some Welsh recommendations while you stay in Wales!
Countries I’ve Visited
Australia, China, Cyprus, Hong Kong, Iceland, Indonesia, Isle of Man, Italy, Japan, Malta, Mexico, Morocco, Nepal, Netherlands, New Zealand, Portugal, Scotland, Singapore, South Africa, South Korea, Taiwan, Thailand, United Kingdom
Countries I’ve Lived In
Malaysia, United Kingdom