Instagram @SeanyOkane

Hello world. I’m an Irish rascal ☘️ I have just relocated to Bali as of August 2024. Spent the last number of years living in Russia. I’m currently seeking someone who like me is interested in co-parenting - raising a child together without being romantically involved. If this is something that interests you, please reach out 1:1 🤰🏿

I have lived most of my adult life in London, however I spent my childhood growing up amongst a 30 year war known as the ‘Irish Troubles’ in the North of Ireland 🇮🇪
I know all too well about the impact of war & the devastation it causes. I wish every waking day for such events to stop & my heart breaks for everyone caught up in current conflicts 🫶🏾

My family background is pretty diverse, hence my openness and tolerance to all people. My adopted dad is Muslim Indian Gujarati and mum is a native of Cape Town. My son is Irish Zimbabwean and my ex-wife is an Arab Muslim Egyptian.

Mostly an optimistic, ‘glass overflowing’ kind of guy who doesn’t sweat the small stuff in life, but I also appreciate that not everyone is similar & that’s okay. It’s important to be empathetic & understanding towards one another’s struggles & difference’s & if it means I get to make you laugh when we meet, then even better )))

I adore nature. I feel at my most content marvelling at the colours and offerings from Mother Earth. I love Gaelic football and I used to run marathons (I’m recovering from knee surgery) & live for adventure. I’ve a filthy and at times dark sense of humour & usually find myself laughing at situations I shouldn’t be. Sometimes I travel with my son, but mostly it's just me & usually when I have running events or globetrotting. Note, I am fortunate enough to be able to afford hotels. Air BnB’s, etc, but I genuinely love meeting new people & experiencing new adventures, so this app is ideal for someone like myself.

Feel free to invite me to be your CS sidekick. I’ve been all over the world getting up to all kinds of mischief. Shenanigans is my favourite pastime. That said, I can be content in many ways; happily just sitting alone reading a good book to getting sweaty and letting loose at a techno club, depending on the occasion.

Recently I juggled my studies part time to become a qualified clinical psychosexual therapist.

My family are made up of a diverse multicultural background, from South African to Indian and Zimbabwean. Looking forward to all the positive vibes you and I are going to create together you little rebel you! 🤙🏾

Karaoke 🎤 enthusiast
Runner 🏃🏾‍♂️ (catch me on Strava, search ‘Seány O’Kane’)
Animal lover 🐶 🐱
LGBT+ friendly 🌈
Liverpool FC ⚽️
Winter fan ❄️
Non smoker 🚭
Non-vaper 👎🏽
Teetotal ☕️
Sex positivity / Be free 💯
Nudism tolerant 🍁
Anti War 🛑

Dear future hosts. Please send me the full address once we confirm. It’s much more helpful than sending it to me partially or just via a google location map/link at the very last minute, as this can result in problematic coordinates, causing frustration for us both 🙏🏽 Thank you for being so kind to consider me 💙

Dear future guests. I do not expect you to bring me anything as a gift. However, I do hope that you take something or offer something to all your other hosts? I see too many freeloaders on this site. If you are limited in funds, please just tell your host at the beginning. Do not expect me to pay for everything. There have been occasions when guests have stayed who bright nothing, contributed to nothing and yet was able to buy themselves countless cigarettes. It’s disgusting and shameful. I was raised differently and would never turn up empty handed to someone offering to help me. Again, I don’t expect you to bring me anything but your kindness and showing respect to my expectations. For the reasons I just outlined, I no longer host smokers. 🚭

Ps. I pride myself on my hygiene and cleanliness, particularly when it comes to daily self-care, and would appreciate it a lot, if you had a similar approach to this. If you do not share this way of living, then please kindly decline any requests of mine to stay 🤝

Why I’m on Couchsurfing

I believe that the world is not full of strangers, only friends who have yet to meet.

Interests

See above

• animals
• cooking
• vegan
• farmers' market
• running
• traveling
• sports
• football
• massage
• snow
• fatherhood
• michael jackson
• intermittent fasting
• keeping fit
• black lives matter
• sense of humor
• haunted places
• unsolved mysteries
• cold climates

Music, Movies, and Books

Michael Jackson, KINO, Jackson 5, Bob Marley, Stevie Wonder, Miles Davis, Stromae, Mammas and Papas, Stormzy, The Jackson's, Enya

Мой любимый фильм - Брат

One Amazing Thing I’ve Done

I woke up today and was still breathing.

Teach, Learn, Share

People fascinate me. Some of my best friends are those whom I've met in the most unlikeliest of places.

What I Can Share with Hosts

My Nigerian Jollof rice dish always goes down a storm with guests. I’m also an experienced Body Healer and happy to provide a complimentary massage session.

Countries I’ve Visited

Albania, Austria, Belgium, Bosnia and Herzegovina, Canada, China, Croatia, Cuba, Czech Republic, Denmark, Egypt, Finland, France, Germany, Hungary, Indonesia, Ireland, Italy, Kenya, Latvia, Luxembourg, Maldives, Mauritius, Monaco, Montenegro, Morocco, Netherlands, Norway, Poland, Russian Federation, Serbia, Singapore, Slovakia, Slovenia, South Africa, Spain, Swaziland, Sweden, Switzerland, Tanzania, Thailand, Turkey, Uganda, United Arab Emirates, United Kingdom, United States

Countries I’ve Lived In

Indonesia, Ireland, Russian Federation, United Kingdom