I’m someone who values quiet strength, genuine connection, and curiosity about the world. I often come across as calm and observant, but those who get to know me find a dry sense of humor, sharp insight, and a deep passion for meaningful things—whether that’s a work of art, a well-designed space, or a powerful conversation.

I enjoy both solitude and human connection—I’m the kind of person who can enjoy a solo walk through a new neighborhood just as much as a long dinner with someone who inspires me. I don’t mind silence, and I never force small talk. I’m present, respectful, and always interested in how other people see the world.

My Personality
• Introverted but not shy – I recharge alone, but I love thoughtful dialogue and emotionally intelligent people.
• Observant & reflective – I tend to notice subtle things—tones, gestures, vibes. I like reading between the lines.
• Open-minded – Whether it’s cultural habits, lifestyles, or opinions, I rarely judge; I’d rather understand.
• Resilient & independent – I’ve handled challenges abroad and built my own life in unfamiliar places. I know how to take care of myself and others.
• Detail-oriented – Whether it’s a beautifully plated meal or a well-structured conversation, I care about the details that make something memorable.
• Emotionally grounded – I stay calm under pressure, try to listen more than speak, and bring a steady energy to the people around me.

Why I’m on Couchsurfing

I believe travel is about connection—not just with places, but with the people who live there. I’m on Couchsurfing to exchange stories, perspectives, and experiences, to share meals or conversations, and to see the everyday life of the places I visit.

As someone who often lives abroad, I know how valuable it is to meet kind, curious, and open-minded people—and I always try to bring that same spirit with me, whether I’m a guest or a host. Couchsurfing, for me, is also a way to escape from tourist clichés and experience the intimate, local side of cities.

Interests

• writing
• fashion
• photography
• cooking
• technology
• tennis

Teach, Learn, Share

• Fashion & Aesthetics – I’m passionate about sustainable fashion, design theory, and how style reflects culture and identity.
• Art & Performance History – I’ve done academic work on avant-garde movements like Futurism, Dada, Surrealism, Bauhaus, and body art from the 1970s.
• Fitness & Well-being – I work out four times a week, focusing on strength training. I’m especially interested in nutrition, testosterone health, and discipline-building.
• Languages & Culture – I speak Mandarin Chinese, fluent English, conversational Italian, and am learning French. I love linguistic quirks, idioms, and gestures.
• Urban Exploration – From night walks in Rome to hidden art galleries in Paris, I love peeling back the layers of a city.
• Philosophy & Psychology – Especially interested in Jungian ideas, the shadow self, and the tension between solitude and intimacy

Countries I’ve Visited

China, France, Germany, Indonesia, Italy, Japan, Spain, Switzerland, Thailand, Viet Nam

Countries I’ve Lived In

China, Italy