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  • Fluent in Belarusian, English, Polish, Russian; learning French, German, Latvian, Polish, Ukrainian
  • 43, Male
  • Member since 2007
  • TEDx - Trainer / Soft-Skills Trainer (Public Speaking and...
  • Mechanical Engineer, Sociologist, lieutenant of the MF, m...
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About Me

* * * Important Note!!! * * * -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
I am out of country on Nov 2...28. No new requests on those time-slots, please. Sorry. (if you already arranged your visit to me on those dates and i answered "Yes", then relax and don't care: i am unavailable because i am booked by you)
All other dates are debatable, so you can send request for coach. All the best!
* * * End of Important Note * * * --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Nice to meet you, dear friends. You're welcome to my place.
I am at CS since 2007, but I have been hosting guests since 1999, when i was 18. And i really want to learn about You - who are you, why are you travelling, what can you teach me and what do you want to learn from you.

Вы новичок и понимаете русский? Почитайте, более полезного "каучсерфинг-ликбеза" я еще не встречал:

CURRENT MISSION (oh, come on, do you really need to read this?)

1. To understand the overcrowded "Babylon" of the Earth.
2. To fulfill the lowest levels of my Maslow Pyramid of Human Needs and to relax, fulfilling others. And then just let the others reach the enlightenment.


I am an IT person. I am a trainer of Public Speaking, Body-Language, Communications, Dark Rhetoric and Presentation skills.

At the same time i am an actor, musician (bagpipe, flute, accordion, guitar, drums, jaw's-harp, harmonica, percussion), sociologist, anarchist, hitch-hiker, dancer and dance instructor, Theater founder and CEO...

Do you know, what the "TED" is? So I am - the TEDx-speakers coach.

Please, DO NOT bring us the souvenirs bought in tourists stores as a git from your country! It better may be just a stone from the ocean shore. Or, may be, small stone from the Coliseum wall 8) Or smallest coin from your country. Or any kind of FOX for my wife. But The best gift for us are sets of MTG cards (Magic: the gathering). It might be in English or your language. The older - the better.

PHILOSOPHY (oh, come on, do you really need to read this?)
I am extremely tolerant. Than is why if someone start to blame white or black people, to blame sexists or women, to blame gays or homophobic - i feel not so good. Please leave all your "-isms" outside - just come and have a rest.

Why I’m on Couchsurfing


I host you, you're my guest.
I visit you, i visit your country, i learn you and your people.


11 years. Ambassador title. Hundreds of guests and hosts.

The most interesting guests - are guests from Dominicana republic, from Australia, a blind traveller (

I am surfer from 2003. I had travelled more than 35 countries.


Body-Language, Communications, Dark Rhetoric, Presentation skills.

IT, QA, Software testing.

Anarchy, Art, Music, Dance (folk, modern, improvisating), LARP, Literature, Travellings, Hitch-hiking, Politics, political protest, Sociology, Historical Re-enactment, Revolt, Theatre, Survival and City-survival, Bicycles, History (of art, of music, of pornography, of theatre), Ethnography, Fire, Poi-spinning, Fire-dancing, Hospitality, Throat-singing, Jew's-Harp music, Medieval Carnival Culture, Shamanism, Pagan Rithuals and Magic Rithuals staging,

  • arts
  • culture
  • literature
  • singing
  • theater
  • performing arts
  • acting
  • dancing
  • dining
  • coach
  • instructor
  • meditation
  • politics
  • traveling
  • magic
  • survival
  • music
  • guitar
  • drums
  • hiking
  • jewish
  • communications
  • teaching
  • history
  • sociology
  • software
  • hitchhiking
  • tours

Music, Movies, and Books

Movies: "12 monkeys", "Forrest Gump", "Fullmetal Jacket", "Clockwork Orange", "Sleeping Hollow", "Romper Stomper"...
Music: Folk and Ethnical, Digital hardcore, Classic, Gothic...
Books: "1984" by Orwell, "Perfect, New World", Strugatskie brothers, Umberto Ecko, "On The Road"...

One Amazing Thing I’ve Done

I have travelled more than 103 000 km by hitch-hiking.

I have found a Medieval Theatre "DiGrease's Buffoon Theatre". And we won a lot of prizes and seen a lot of cities and countries in our performance tours. We will be glad to come to Your city to perform.
I gave my girlfriend an sevenfold mind-blowing orgasm by cunnilingus (pussy-eating).
I won the Professional competition of Extracurricular teachers in Belarus.
So, oficially, i am the best Belarusian extracurricular teacher in a field of Art and Culture in 2011...2013.
I saved the life of 8 passengers - artists of my theatre - while was driving them in our minibus to the Performance Tour to Denmark. It was really scary...

Teach, Learn, Share

Are you sure you need this? Okay...

I can teach You dances: belarussian folk, latvian folk, etc.
Very often I teach people throat-singing and Jew's-Harp playing.

I can teach how to play music (bagpipe, flute, drums, harmonica, jaw's-harp), how to do a great cunnilingus, how to meditate on Fire and how to do magic.

And, of course, i may teach you how to make Public Speaking.

What I Can Share with Hosts

I can share with you a place to sleep, a towel, tea, a shower. I can share my knowledge about what to see and visit in Europe. I can share some time (but not a lot - i really love to do my job).
I can share my kitchen: you are welcome to make food and even to regale us.

If you are a lady and only if you really want to try amazing threesome sex - yes, we would be happy to organize. But remember: me and my wife are very shy and tactful, we afraid of harrasment and we never do harrasment. So we never talk about it first, so you should start talking about it. My beautiful wife is obligatory participant, without exceptions. So in that case just let me know.

Countries I’ve Visited

Austria, Azerbaijan, Belgium, Cyprus, Czech Republic, Denmark, Estonia, Finland, France, Georgia, Germany, Greece, Greenland, Hungary, Iceland, India, Ireland, Italy, Kazakhstan, Latvia, Lithuania, Luxembourg, Moldova, Netherlands, Norway, Poland, Romania, Russian Federation, Slovakia, Slovenia, Sweden, Switzerland, Turkey, Ukraine, United States

Countries I’ve Lived In

Belarus, Norway, Poland, Russian Federation, United States

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