Hey there! I’m Joseph, a creative and curious soul from Oklahoma who loves good conversation, community, and connecting with folks who bring kindness into shared spaces. I work in cultural tourism and arts programming, helping lift up Indigenous and queer artists across the country.

As a guest, I’m low maintenance and grateful for a clean, safe place to land after a full day of exploring. As a host, my home is open and welcoming to all, especially queer travelers and anyone who believes in respect, laughter, and good food.

Why I’m on Couchsurfing

I love meeting people who see travel as more than just sightseeing. For me, it’s about connection, culture, and shared stories. Couchsurfing feels like a way to keep community alive while exploring new places or welcoming others into mine. I want to meet folks who are kind, open-minded, and curious about the world — the kind of people who make a space feel safe and welcoming no matter where you are.

Interests

• arts
• culture
• theater
• performing arts
• dining
• cooking
• live music
• food
• lgbt
• theatre
• exploring
• art museums
• gayfriendly
• speakeasies
• breweries
• musical theatre
• food and drinks
• public art

Music, Movies, and Books

My playlists jump from Madonna to Mary Chapin Carpenter to classic soul without warning. I love lyric-forward music that tells a story and makes people feel something real.

When it comes to movies, I’m into a mix of queer stories, smart comedies, and anything with great cinematography — Moonlight, Everything Everywhere All at Once, The Birdcage, and the occasional comfort rewatch of The Devil Wears Prada. I also love a good action-suspense moment, but I skip the gore and horror every time.

Books? I’m drawn to writers who blend identity, history, and heart — Tommy Orange, Ocean Vuong, and others who make me see the world a little differently.

One Amazing Thing I’ve Done

When a friend of mine was touring with Peter Pan the Musical and their company stopped in Memphis for Thanksgiving — where my parents live — we invited the entire cast and crew over for lunch. We cooked for about 50 people, shared stories, and turned that afternoon into a home for everyone far from their own. It was one of those beautiful moments where generosity and gratitude filled every corner of the house.

Teach, Learn, Share

Teach: Cherokee stories and community-centered event planning.
Learn: How others build and care for their communities.
Share: Stories, playlists, and meals that bring people together.

What I Can Share with Hosts

Good company, great stories, and a cooked meal or bottle of wine to share. I travel respectfully and appreciate the generosity of a safe, welcoming space.

Countries I’ve Visited

Canada, South Africa

Countries I’ve Lived In

United States