There’s something deeply fulfilling about living a life that blends creativity, movement, and meaningful work, and that’s exactly the kind of life I try to build wherever I go. I tend to be someone who doesn’t like to stay in just one lane for too long. I enjoy working with my hands, learning practical skills, and being useful—but at the same time, I’m equally drawn to expression, performance, and the kind of moments that bring people together in a more memorable way.

Okay … so ways that I have been navigating capitalism: I have been a street performance artist and professional pianist for some time now; some things that have naturally carried into my everyday life. I love the feeling of stepping into a space and bringing a certain energy with me—whether that’s through music, storytelling, or simply being present and engaged with the people around me.

I have been involved in trans/queer disability justice all my life having lived experiences with multiple intersectionalities and am currently in lineage and praxis with black indigenous philosophers that are offering extranoematic modes of disembarkation and manumission.

Why I’m on Couchsurfing

I joined Couchsurfing because, in many ways, it represents everything I’ve felt missing in my life for as long as I can remember. I grew up in a small, provincial town where life moved slowly and predictably, where everyone seemed to know everyone else, and where expectations were quietly set long before you had the chance to question them. I want to learn directly from people whose lives are different from mine, not through screens or secondhand stories, but through real, shared experiences.

Interests

• juggling
• dumpster diving
• sailing
• circus
• unschooling
• queer
• acroyoga
• acrobatics
• kink
• pirates
• contact improv
• train hopping
• fusion dancing
• somatics
• indigenous cultures
• earthships
• lgbtq+
• contact dance
• cnc
• clowntherapy
• transgender rights
• deschooling
• black philosophy
• corporeality
• tactility
• protactile

Music, Movies, and Books

📚 Experimental and Avant-Garde Books:

* *House of Leaves* – Mark Z. Danielewski
* *Naked Lunch* – William S. Burroughs
* *Gravity’s Rainbow* – Thomas Pynchon
* *Finnegans Wake* – James Joyce
* *Hopscotch* – Julio Cortázar
* *Pale Fire* – Vladimir Nabokov
* *2666* – Roberto Bolaño
* *The Third Policeman* – Flann O’Brien
* *If on a winter’s night a traveler* – Italo Calvino
* *The Book of Disquiet* – Fernando Pessoa

🎵 Experimental and Avant-Garde Music:

* John Cage – *4’33”*
* Karlheinz Stockhausen
* Sun Ra
* Captain Beefheart and His Magic Band – *Trout Mask Replica*
* Sonic Youth
* Aphex Twin
* Laurie Anderson
* Arvo Pärt
* Glenn Branca
* John Zorn

🎬 Experimental and Avant-Garde Movies:

* *Eraserhead* – David Lynch
* *Meshes of the Afternoon* – Maya Deren
* *Un Chien Andalou* – Luis Buñuel & Salvador Dalí
* *Persona* – Ingmar Bergman
* *Dog Star Man* – Stan Brakhage
* *Holy Motors* – Leos Carax
* *Tropical Malady* – Apichatpong Weerasethakul
* *The Color of Pomegranates* – Sergei Parajanov
* *Wavelength* – Michael Snow
* *Stalker* – Andrei Tarkovsky

One Amazing Thing I’ve Done

* I appreciate simple moments and meaningful connections
* I believe travel is about people, not just places
* I enjoy conversations that go beyond small talk
* I’m easygoing and respectful of different lifestyles
* I like a balance of activity and downtime
* Music is almost always part of my day
* I’m curious about how others see the world
* I enjoy both planning and spontaneous adventures
* I value kindness, openness, and mutual respect

Teach, Learn, Share

🌱 Teach

* Guitar basics and simple songs
* Easy cooking skills, especially quick comfort meals
* How to make a solid cup of coffee or French press
* Simple mindfulness and breathing techniques
* Beginner photography tips including composition, lighting, and angles
* Basic tech help such as apps, troubleshooting, and organizing files

🌍 Learn

* New languages, even just a few phrases
* Traditional recipes from your culture
* Music I’ve never heard before
* Cultural dances or movement styles
* Stories from your life and travels
* Different perspectives on life and happiness
* Creative skills like drawing, painting, or crafts
* Sewing, repairing, or making things by hand
* Gardening or plant care tips

🤝 Share

* Good conversations and genuine connection
* Meals, snacks, and cooking experiences together
* A comfortable, respectful space
* Music sessions or playlist exchanges
* Movie nights and discussions afterward
* Coffee chats that turn into long talks
* Walks around the city or neighborhood
* Favorite books or articles
* Moments like sunsets, quiet mornings, or night views
* Laughs, jokes, and lighthearted energy

What I Can Share with Hosts

🛠️ Practical Contributions

* Help with small household tasks like washing dishes, tidying up, or helping with groceries
* Cooking meals or sharing simple recipes from my background
* Organizing shared spaces or contributing to household routines
* Travel planning advice or tips for exploring the local area efficiently
* Sharing knowledge of useful apps, tech tips, or productivity hacks
* Guidance on packing, organizing, or preparing for short trips
* Basic photography tips and advice on capturing special moments
* Support with minor household projects or DIY fixes
* Assistance in planning activities or outings to make hosting easier

🌏 Cultural Exchange

* Sharing stories and personal experiences from my travels and life
* Learning about my hosts’ traditions, local culture, and family stories
* Swapping music, playlists, or favorite songs from different cultures
* Introducing hobbies or creative skills like guitar, crafts, or writing
* Discussing books, movies, or media that have inspired me
* Learning about food traditions, local dishes, or cooking techniques
* Exploring local hidden gems and lesser-known spots together
* Engaging in language practice or cultural lessons in a fun, natural way

💬 Social and Emotional Contributions

* Meaningful conversations about life, travel, happiness, and personal perspectives
* Being a good listener and sharing insights without judgment
* Providing companionship while respecting personal space and routines
* Offering emotional openness and creating a comfortable environment
* Sharing experiences that inspire reflection or new ways of thinking
* Helping hosts feel appreciated and valued as part of the exchange
* Acting as a reliable, friendly presence that contributes to positive energy
* Showing curiosity and interest in the host’s life and experiences

🎉 Fun and Playful Contributions

* Playing games, cards, or simple icebreakers to create connection
* Organizing spontaneous activities or outings to explore the city
* Sharing music, singing, or casual creative sessions
* Laughing, joking, and creating lighthearted, enjoyable moments
* Engaging in hobbies or outdoor activities with the host
* Celebrating small daily moments that make the stay memorable
* Offering playful challenges or collaborative problem-solving activities
* Sharing memorable experiences through photography or journaling

Countries I’ve Visited

United States

Countries I’ve Lived In

United States