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  • Fluent in English; learning Spanish
  • 32, Male
  • Member since 2005
  • actor, writer, eater of foods
  • I graduated from a two year acting conservatory on the we...
  • From Santa Barbara, CA, USA
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About Me


to live forever... or die in the attempt.


I've already met so many amazing people through couch surfing and had so many great experiences! Let's see, about me... I grew up with two hippy parents and it has rubbed off a bit. I was home schooled until 6th grade and instead of learning my times tables my parents read me Yeats and Rumi and anthropology books.
I don't like the word "whatever".
I love waking up to the sound of rain.
I love good food, good drink, and good people to share them with.


There is more going on here than I'll ever understand. I'm just enjoying the ride.

Why I’m on Couchsurfing


I have been a CS member since 2006 and since then I've gotten to meet, travel with, and be hosted by some amazing individuals. Right now, I'm living in NY and I'd like to give back a bit of the incredible hospitality I experienced while I was traveling.


I'm an old time supporter of crashing at a friends house on a long road trip or visa versa. I did a three and a half month trip through Europe and used couch surfing very extensively.


Theater, writing, progressive political activism, music, travel, meeting new and exciting people, the outdoors, exploration (all sorts and forms), a good night out with friends or just sitting at home on a rainy day with a cup of hot chocolate and a good book.

Music, Movies, and Books

"Children of Men", "The Constant Gardener", "O Brother Where art Thou", "Big Lebowski", "Eternal Sunshine o.t.s.m.", "Cradle Will Rock", "Lord of the Rings", "Thin Red Line", "City of God", "Adaptation", "Big Fish"...

A lot of indie rock, a lot of, well, good music: Neutral Milk Hotel, Radiohead, Dispatch, Holcombe Waller (look him up), Bright Eyes, Decemberists, Damien Rice, Nick Drake, Kings of Convenience, Belle and Sebastian, Counting Crows, Jeff Buckley, The Walkmen, Spiritualized, Beck, The Postal Service, Iron and Wine, Ben Folds, Modest Mouse, Zero 7, Rufus Wainwright, Regina Spector, Fiona Apple, Elliot Smith, The Beatles, Pink Floyd, and a lot more

"Alice in Wonderland and Through the Looking Glass", "Lord of the Rings", "His Dark Materials", "Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy", "Johnny Got His Gun". Anything by Shakespeare. POETS William Blake, William Wordsworth, William Butler Yeats, William Shakespeare (if I want my kid to be a poet I'm naming him William), John Keats, Robert Graves, Edwin Shaw (my dad), Pablo Neruda, and more.

One Amazing Thing I’ve Done

I've done street performance in Mexico during the International Cervantino Festival. I've had the lights turned out on me on at the bottom of a cave in Germany and had to find my way to the top with a book of matches. I've lived on a ship for 8 months in the Caribbean. I've fallen in love (I think that's pretty amazing).

Countries I’ve Visited

France, Germany, Ireland, Italy, Japan, Mexico, Netherlands, United Kingdom, United States

Countries I’ve Lived In

United States

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